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I [23F] feel insecure over my [24M] boyfriend’s TikTok watch history. Before my boyfriend and I started officially dating, last April, I noticed he followed a lot of gorgeous women on TikTok. None of them honestly looked like me. I’m a midsize girl and just average looking. I talked to him about his following and told him it made me insecure. He unfollowed the girls right away.

This past month my bf went on a spiel about how he wanted to delete TikTok, his only form of social media off his phone. Although he signed into his account on my phone for occasional brainrot doomscrolls. One night I had a weird feeling and decided to go through his watch history. Yes, I know this is bad, but temptation won me over. As I scrolled through I found multiple videos of these girls again. He’d find a girls profile then binge through their pages.
One of these scrolling episodes was just days after our first anniversary. Which is in May.

I confronted him immediately after. I asked him why and he said he had a lust addiction and that was part of the reason he’d deleted the app. That he was sorry and would be more honest with me in the future.

It’s been almost a month since that main conversation, followed with small ones after. I can’t seem to get over it. I think about it at least once a day and question my own looks and if he truly finds me attractive. Some days I just stare at myself in the mirror and I feel sad and understand why he would look at those girls. I simply just don’t compare. I really don’t know what my next move should be. I genuinely love him but I just can’t get over it. I need advice.

TLDR: I [23F] feel insecure over my [24M] boyfriend’s TikTok watch history. Before we started dating I talked to him about him following dozens of girls. He unfollowed them. Although a year later, I saw him viewing multiple girls on TikTok, scrolling through their profiles and binging their videos, just days after our first anniversary. I’m really insecure about it, and keep thinking about it. What should I do?

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Hi everyone,
I’ve been with my boyfriend [24M] for one year now. We just had our anniversary at the end of May.

Last week my bf decided he wanted to quit TikTok and other forms of social media. Reason being he wanted to invest more time in his hobbies and be digitally disconnected.

Well I jokingly was concerned about our TikTok streak. So he took it upon himself to log his account into my phone to keep it going.

Before we started dating, his TikTok following was full of gorgeous women. None of who looked like or resembled me. I guess this is where the insecurity stems from. I talked to him about it and he unfollowed all the girls.

When he signed his account into my phone, I wondered if his mind was still there. It was.
Going through his watch history of just April and May of this year, I found multiple girls. Some of who’s profiles he was clearly stalking.

My stomach literally fell through my ass, I cried, and I’m shaking writing this. I found this out literally 20 minutes ago.

I’m currently at my apartment and he’s at work. Picking me up after to stay the night at his place, which we agreed on earlier. I need advice, desperately. How do I address this? Do I confront him?

TLDR: I \[23F\] went through my bf \[24M\] of one years TikTok history and found him stalking a lot of gorgeous girls. What do I do?

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