u/Prudent-Tiger112

I’ve had so many readings lately from so many different reader and on different sites with all the same message about my situation. It’s not that it’s not happening but it does feel like it’s going the opposite direction. I want them all to be right especially the ones that have felt very accurate about everything but I feel so lost now too. So am I just crazy to believe this?

Same goes with manifesting and spells and prayer. Am I just crazy for trying this all?

I dumped my ex months ago because she moved away and I didn’t want to do long distance. A lot in me has changed since then and I want to get back together. I reached out again and have talked for a bit now. How do I get her back from here?

Hi, I’m looking for some good advice on repairing a relationship after a break up.

I (31M), broke up with my (28F) girlfriend about 8 months ago now after being together for a year. The reasons were because she moved 5 hours away for work and with our jobs, long distance would have been nearly impossible over the next couple of months. Neither of us really wanted to but I guess we saw the logic in it not working very well. I went no contact even with her attempts to reach out. This was 8 months ago now.

Now I’ve reached out 5 weeks ago to reconnect and we have had a long phone call a week. Most being over 2 hours and a few FaceTimes. First two were emotional ones and then after that I’ve kept things light and just good conversation to no over load the emotional stuff.

Now after a recent call where we fell asleep on the line together she’s put up a boundary about not doing that again. Fair, I don’t want to pressure this all with her and I respect her too much to try and force things. We had another call recently where I brought her feelings about that and a couple points she made were that she was mad at herself for how quickly she just let me in again. She’s trying to figure out how I fit into her life. She’s forgiven me for my avoidance but at the same time still feels hurt. She wants to hear about my life because she still cares but at the same time she doesn’t know what this all looks like.

So my question is when you’ve hurt someone how do you repair that, especially when you both don’t live near each other? Should I have a more in depth conversation about how she felt during the break up and how my avoidance hurt her? Should I take about the changes I’ve made for myself?

I told her this all doesn’t have to have an answer right now, we can take this at her pace but I will be here for her and will continue to reach out (not constantly) to show that I am not going anywhere.

Update: currently on week 7/8 of keeping up weekly calls. A few weeks ago I asked a bit about where she was at and she had told me she was still figuring out how I fit into her life again and that she was mad at herself for how quickly she let me back in again. She said she does forgive me but still holds some hurt from the no contact for so long which I understand. That was about 3 weeks ago.

Last week she was have a tough anxious week and was texting me casually during the day. Then we had a long nearly 3 hour FaceTime on a Wednesday evening. We had a fun conversation but she was also feeling sick and anxious still from some meds she took so a lot of it was just me staying with her on the phone to help her now feel alone. She also took a shower while I was on FaceTime still and got ready for bed with me too. She wasn’t showing anything but still. So that was a good call where I thought her guard was down more and we were closer again but the past week she was seemingly more reserved and quiet.

Not sure if anyone has been in my position and this is a typical cycle to go through when you’re trying to reconcile and repair a relationship?

Hi, I’ve posted something about this before but I wanted a more exact take on building someone’s trust and repair the hurt I caused.

I (31M), broke up with my (28F) girlfriend about 8 months ago now after being together for a year. The reasons were because she moved 5 hours away for work and with our jobs, long distance would have been nearly impossible over the next couple of months. Neither of us really wanted to but I guess we saw the logic in it not working very well. I went no contact even with her attempts to reach out. This was 8 months ago now.

Now I’ve reached out 5 weeks ago to reconnect and we have had a long phone call a week. Most being over 2 hours and a few FaceTimes. First two were emotional ones and then after that I’ve kept things light and just good conversation to no over load the emotional stuff.

Now after a recent call where we fell asleep on the line together she’s put up a boundary about not doing that again. Fair, I don’t want to pressure this all with her and I respect her too much to try and force things. We had another call recently where I brought her feelings about that and a couple points she made were that she was mad at herself for how quickly she just let me in again. She’s trying to figure out how I fit into her life. She’s forgiven me for my avoidance but at the same time still feels hurt. She wants to hear about my life because she still cares but at the same time she doesn’t know what this all looks like.

So my question is when you’ve hurt someone how do you repair that, especially when you both don’t live near each other? Should I have a more in depth conversation about how she felt during the break up and how my avoidance hurt her? Should I take about the changes I’ve made for myself?

I told her this all doesn’t have to have an answer right now, we can take this at her pace but I will be here for her and will continue to reach out (not constantly) to show that I am not going anywhere.

Update: currently on week 7/8 of keeping up weekly calls. A few weeks ago I asked a bit about where she was at and she had told me she was still figuring out how I fit into her life again and that she was mad at herself for how quickly she let me back in again. She said she does forgive me but still holds some hurt from the no contact for so long which I understand. That was about 3 weeks ago.

Last week she was have a tough anxious week and was texting me casually during the day. Then we had a long nearly 3 hour FaceTime on a Wednesday evening. We had a fun conversation but she was also feeling sick and anxious still from some meds she took so a lot of it was just me staying with her on the phone to help her now feel alone. She also took a shower while I was on FaceTime still and got ready for bed with me too. She wasn’t showing anything but still. So that was a good call where I thought her guard was down more and we were closer again but the past week she was seemingly more reserved and quiet.

Not sure if anyone has been in my position and this is a typical cycle to go through when you’re trying to reconcile and repair a relationship?

So if every psychic I speak to about a situation tells me the same thing about it, would it be fair to assume it’s true then? I’ve had experiences in the past where I got varying messages but this one I feel good about myself and the many I’ve spoke to confirm that as well.

So there must be something to the energy then right?