u/Prudent_Skin8522

Hi this is pretty random, and it might even sound a bit insane but if you’re an athlete, would you still date someone who doesn’t really do any sports?

I am a girl who is starting high school and almost all of my friends are playing some kind of sport. I also play sports but I am very soon going to quit ( personal reasons ). Almost every one also has a bf who also plays sports, and we often hang out with people who are athletic as well.

Since I am going to quit I feel a little odd, a little left out. I’m just worried that people will think that I am weird and I’m also very scared that I might never get a bf.

So to athletes - do you look down on people who dosent really play any sports? And would you date someone who isn’t an athlete?

I’m just scared and curious, I will still go to the gym thought!

I've noticed that I've sometimes connected sexual feelings with things like insecurity, comparing myself to other people, or jealousy.
For example, when I felt insecure about my appearance or compared myself to a friend who I thought looked better than me, those feelings could sometimes become connected to sexual behavior.

The confusing part is that I didn't actually want those people romantically or sexually, and I wouldn't want anything to happen with them in real life. It feels more like my brain somehow learned an association between certain emotions and sexual feelings.

I've tried searching for people with similar experiences, but I haven't really found anything that matches. Has anyone experienced something similar, or knows what this could be called?

Please comment, and even if you don’t relate you could at least tell me if this is like insane, I am quite worried