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How to treat broken skin from caning? Will it leave scar?

The first time, my skin broke from a wooden paddle. I didn't take care of it and it didn't leave scar.

This second time though, I want to make sure that it will 100% not leave me any scar. This time I'll receive only cane strokes. I like it hard, so it will sure break skin.

Should I cover the wound with a bandage to prevent friction from my underwear? And if I do cover it, wouldn't it get moist and sweaty since it's under clothing? (I live in a tropical country, it's hot and sweaty here.)

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u/Pumarull — 17 hours ago
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Is he interested in me at all?

I need help intepreting because I might be biased since I like him. FYI all cards are jumpers. The deck is Crow Tarot.

(For context: I knew him a year and a half ago through kinky community. He's older than me. We haven't been able to meet. First he was busy, then I was busy. We lost contact because I was tired of waiting. This new year, I missed him and reached out. And it's the same. First he's busy when I'm available. And when there's prospect where he might be available, I might be busy. But I'm willing to wait this time.)

  1. First, I asked if he's interested in me at all and got 2 of cups. I think it means mutual interests and I don't believe it, so I shuffle more and got three other jumpers: king of cups, queen of wands, and 4 of wands, consecutively.

My interpretation: He's the king of cups and I'm the queen of wands. Water and fire don't go well together but if there's 2 of cups, maybe we would complement each other somehow. 4 of wands mean we might be compatible, but I think it's just kinky compatible.

  1. It seemed too positive and I didn't want to believe it so I shuffled again and got page of pentacles first. I shuffled again and the last three came out together.

My interpretation: Overall, I need to be patient, talk, and see what happens. Ace of swords is like cutting through fog, communicate for clarity. And it will lead to 10 of cups, a positive outcome.

Yesterday I asked the same question and got 2 of cups two times and the lovers one time. All jumpers

u/Pumarull — 3 days ago