u/PurpleRaven95

I’m a 30F and I’ve always been romantically and sexually attracted to men. I don’t really fantasize about women sexually or feel a strong desire to sleep with them, but I do find women beautiful and I’ve definitely had crushes on girls before. My feelings toward women tend to feel very soft and wholesome — cuddling, emotional intimacy, maybe kissing, but nothing much beyond that.

Lately though, I’ve developed a crush on my manager and it’s confusing me a little. I get flustered when she puts her hand on my shoulder, calls me “honey,” or likes my Instagram photos while joking that I look hot. My cheeks literally flush around her.

I keep telling myself maybe I just think women are pretty, but this feels a little deeper than that and I’m not really sure what to make of it. I’m starting to wonder if maybe I’m biromantic but primarily sexually attracted to men. Has anyone else experienced something similar?