I feel like a lot of these posts are talking about negativity regarding asexuality, either venting or aphobia, so I want to talk about my experience
I gotta say when I realised I'm asexual as well as aromantic, my confidence went up significantly, because having this label was not only empowering, but also because it has absolutely strengthened my relationships platonically, specifically with women. Furthermore, this community is very wholesome, other aces I've met IRL are some of the greatest people in the world. I've had some straight friends even be jealous that I can just live life without needing romantic/sexual validation from anyone. Oh and also garlic bread has and likely always will be my favourite food and the fact that it's ours is glorious.