u/Puzzleheaded_Dot6036

So when I turned 21, my parents asked me what I wanted to do for my 21st. So I said “I want to go to Nashville” (since I love anything country)

So the four of us and my parents friends all went to Nashville, went bar hopping and site seeing.

(I had a great time)

Couple years later (now) I’m turning 23 next week and they again asked me what I wanted to do and I said “let’s go visit my grandparents” (who I don’t see as much due to distance) so we are going this weekend for my birthday.

Anyway, this is this part where this question comes in…

I was talking about something and my brother said “just like how we went to Nashville for your 21st and now going to (said destination) for your 23”

And I replied “well I asked them if we could go”

Now realizing it, was he right about having whatever I wanted to do for my 21st and 23?

Am I the asshole?

(TLDR: brother complaining how he didn’t get to do whatever he wanted for his 21st and 23. He keeps brining it up every chance he gets when my birthday comes around)