u/QueenOfSeagulls

Bonjour tout le monde, je comptais simplement traduire une ou deux semaines à l'avance mon permis pour conduire une automatique au Japon, et hier en discutant avec un ami parti en avril 2026, il m'a assuré qu'il fallait obligatoirement le permis international au risque de se voir refuser la location. C'est la première fois que j'entends ça malgré mes recherches en amont et je suis assez stressée car je pars dans un peu moins d'un mois et j'ai peur des délais pour ce fameux permis international... D'autres retours d'expériences récents ?

Hi, this is going to be very personal. I (bi/27 yo) was a complete virgin until two weeks ago. My gf (bi/32 yo) and I have started intimacy, more with dry-humping so far. Delving into this reddit, I discovered the concept of stone top. And this is where I start my question... She stays fully clothed during intimacy, but I realise this is starting to make me uncomfortable because it's not as pleasurable, and I feel awkward because of the imbalance between her and I (I remove most of my clothes). I get in my head about it: "Do you not trust me to feel vulnerable ?" And I want to explore my sexuality, but I want to do it with a partner: for me exploring goes both way, receiving it and giving it to better understand and learn our bodies. I don't know how to approach the subject and if I should do it at all... My apologies if this seems all tone-deaf, bear in mind that I had almost to no relationship and intimacy before.

Hi everyone,

I accidentally left an hot iron on the woodfloor of my parents' living room. The wood was badly burned and I wanted to alleviate the contrast before they came back, so I sanded the area to make the wood lighter. It is indeed more discreet but my dad came back and told me I should never have sanded it, because to woodfloor was treated and now I removed the treatment layers.

Can I locally treat the wood again or am I doomed to sand and treat the whole floor (which I can't financially afford)?

Thank you, please don't judge me too hard...