People who never move on from their ex and start dating
21F, straight, never been in a relationship before college because I genuinely had other priorities. Then I started dating and somehow kept attracting the same type of men: the “still in love with his ex” species.
First guy? 3 months in, I find out he’s still hung up on his ex. Left immediately because why am I competing with someone from your past while giving you my all?
Second guy was avoidant as hell (totally my type🤩). We started as friends, caught feelings, and he claimed he was over his ex. Then one random snap implied they still talked. I instantly started detaching emotionally and eventually ghosted him. Hardest thing ever because I was getting withdrawal symptoms when I wasn't talking to him.
Then came the final boss. Love bombed me perfectly because I was emotionally starving. One month in, I’m at his place, he’s showing me something on his work phone, and my gut says something’s off. I check it, nothing suspicious. Then an Insta notification pops up on his personal phone. I ask him to open it and suddenly this man turns ICE COLD. Refuses to show me but says he can “give the password later.” Weird as fuck.
I hand him my own phone immediately because I had nothing to hide. He still refuses, tells me to pack my stuff, and offers to drop me home while acting completely normal on the ride back like he didn’t just psychologically uppercut me.
Next morning he sends a paragraph explaining everything. Turns out he had a private spam account where he only followed his ex just to keep up with her life. I said it's okay babe aap mujhse bs gandi batein kr skte ho kyuki pyaar toh apko bs apni ex se hai aur shadi toh ap mummy psnd se kroge 🤩 Emotional cheating is also cheating
IDK Man DON'T TALK TO ME UNLESS YOUR EX IS LIKE DEAD OR SOMETHING I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THIS SHIT...