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So, my partner and I have broken up. There were too many ongoing problems and issues in the relationship, and things ultimately fell apart. Since the breakup, she’s been trying to alienate and blackball me from future events. She already contacted one event organizer, spread information about me, and got me removed from an event.

I was honestly in shock for the first couple of days, but now I’m focused on protecting myself and moving forward.

I was the more socially connected one through social media, FetLife, SLS, and SDC, so I’ve been proactive about the situation. I’ve already reached out to several event organizers and provided screenshots/documentation showing the attempts at alienation. I’ve also quietly informed close friends, family, work, and organizers about what’s been going on so they’re aware of the situation from my side as well.

I haven’t blocked her yet because I’ve been documenting and saving receipts/screenshots in case I need them later. I’m trying to stay calm, civil, and strategic about everything instead of escalating things emotionally.

At this point, is there anything else I should be doing to protect myself. I am not sure if this is the correct spot to post this.