Controlling, homophobic and racist parents won’t stop threatening to harass and scare every platonic and romantic relationship I have.
My (19) parents found out that I’m in a relationship with my lesbian best friend. They have a history of being homophobic (kicking out my gay 16 y/o cousin that lived with us), and they’re the kind of Asian parents that are unfortunately anti-black… which makes my relationship 1000x worse in their minds. They know where my partner lives, since we were best friends for years, and have been threatening to “out” us to and harass their parents. Before this, they’ve harassed my other best friend’s family when I left for a year, after a difficult day with my dad. They’ve harassed one of my cousin’s and her mother, who tried to help get me and my sister out of a youth center that we were sent at, after an altercation with our father. During my first relationship, they called the police twice on my ex’s family. That police scare made it difficult for me to see her since her family didn’t want her to be anywhere near my crazy parents.
They came to places I’ve been to just to yell and hit me in public in front of my friends, knowing that I would be too embarrassed to fight back. Afterwards, all those friends stopped talking to me when they realized how insane my parents were.
Every time I’m out, they spam call me and yell at me about being with my partner. We argue and fight every day about it. I’m just sick and tired and want them to stop. I want to leave my home but I’m scared they’re going to harass whoever helps me leave.
I’m sorry if the format is off, first time poster :p
If anyone can give me advice, I’m open.
Edit: I live in Canada