I'd like an honest opinion using AI for a text message ?
I was in a relationship where trust had already been damaged. My ex asked me to reflect on myself, so I spent about two days doing that. I wrote a rough draft with my own thoughts and answered difficult questions about myself.
The reason I used AI afterward was because I have a tendency to ramble, jump between topics, and sometimes what I'm trying to say gets misunderstood because my writing isn't very organized. I wanted to make sure my thoughts were clear and flowed well. The ideas, emotions, and experiences were my own I only used AI to help organize and clarify the writing.
She noticed the writing sounded different, accused me of using AI, and I admitted that I had used it to organize my writing. I explained that the thoughts were still mine, but she didn't believe me and said I was incapable of thinking for myself. The conversation ended with her telling me to delete her number, and I did.
Looking back:
Was it a mistake to use AI at all in that situation, knowing she already disliked it?
Even if it was a mistake, do you think it was fair to conclude that I wasn't thinking for myself or that my emotions weren't genuine?
What would you have done differently if you were in my position?