AITA for getting an extra order of fries for my girlfriend?
I feel like I’m going absolutely crazy for this being an argument and I need someone objective to tell me if I fucked up.
My girlfriend is a French fry bandit. She always takes half of my French fries without fail. When we go out and I get a burger with fries, I already know half are going to her. My issue is that French fries are one of my favorite foods because I have the palate of a child.
I always get myself a side of fries, and I always ask my girlfriend if she wants fries as well, it’s always a no, but once they show up half go to her.
So recently we were out for dinner and I wanted steak frites, she wanted a salad. I was hungry and admittedly had a bad day and was grouchy, and I asked her if she also wanted fries with her salad. She said no.
So when the server came, i ordered for us, and I ordered my steak frites, and a salad for her and an extra side of fries. She said that she didnt want fries, I said that I wanted extra fries so we pushed on.
When the server dropped off the food, I immediately pushed the extra fries to her. She was upset, she said she didn’t want them. Then I said I’d have them.
As we got in the car, she told me that I was being a dick and ordering fries for her when she said she didn’t want them was incredibly condescending of me to assume I know what she wants. The kicker is, SHE ATE THE EXTRA FRIES. SHE WANTED THE EXTRA FRIES. I ate my fries and she at pretty much the entire side, even though I was planning on eating them. She’s been with me for a year, of course I know she’s gonna eat the fries she’s does it every time.
She’s been pissed about it since and I feel like I’m taking crazy pills on why I’m the asshole here.