u/Reasonable_Wash_464

Im not talling about some weird douching stuff. Just squatting and aiming the shower head with warm water towards my anus. No water gets in, doesnt have to be close. When this happens i get instant pf drop and i can dribble pee even if i just peed minutes ago.

Its some sort of total pf relaxation. I am curios if i should keep doing this or if it can be damaging. Certainly does not feel like it.

Its the same feeling as a sitz bath but more intense

From an evolutionary standpoint the only reason we have penises to begin with is to ejaculate in vaginas so it should be expected that the reason we have sex is to ejaculate inside one. Much like the reason we look for food is to end up swallowing the food. If we would chew food and spit it out or choke on it and be unable to swallow, we would logically have a problem because something is not functioning right with our eating instinct.

I believe there are many similarities between the chewing example and sex/ejaculation. There should be no holding back because thats the reason you do it in the first place, thats the reason for all the effort, penetration, thrusting etc. Its BECAUSE you want to cum inside. Thats what you are aiming for or should be aiming for.

In the case of PE, or accidental ejaculation, my position is that it should not happen unless you actively (unconciously) dont want to do it to begin with and your body takes over and does it for you.