Embarrassing post/need advice
Not really my ideal way of asking for help but my friends aren’t really the type i can go to for stuff like this soooo here i am.
I’ve been seeing this guy, and our sex life is awesome like 99% of the time with the one hiccup being when i give him head. Don’t get me wrong, i love doing it, i jump on the opportunity to do it, but he says he can feel my teeth.
He never really outwardly expressed this issue until a month or so ago, and it kinda hit me hard because he’s the first person i’ve been with to tell me that he wasn’t enjoying himself, and i also felt like maybe he was faking enjoying it up until now. He asked me if i could feel my teeth scraping and i can’t. When I’m in the middle of it and he mentions my teeth, I’ve been thinking that I’ve kept them out of the way.
We talked about it again this morning and he said that “there’s a level of softness and warmth that should come with a blow job that i feel like is missing”…. which is now why i’m here.
I don’t really know what I’m doing wrong, if he’s feeling teeth, then he’s feeling teeth, but i’m opening my jaw as far as i can while still trying to keep my lips wrapped around him, i’ve tried curling my lips over my teeth but he said that doesn’t help. I went and bought some of those mints that’s supposed to make your mouth water extra, thinking maybe if there was more saliva that might help too, but he just pushes me off after a bit. I can tell he’s frustrated and i’m feeling more and more defeated, and i worry if it continues it’s going to start causing problems in the rest of our sex life.
TLDR: i worry my head is trash- can someone give me the “for dummies” explanation on how I’m supposed to be giving a blow job?