u/RegolithVT

Writing this post to see if others here feel the same/ similar, but I've found that being agender is almost like not hearing a particular noise in the cacophony of human life. Gender can take up so much mental ram, especially for my trans friends, and not connecting with any of that, not 'hearing' it I find a lot of things obvious that are obscured or blurry to them. I often also find it hard to connect because so much of their lives revolve around something I don't really interact with at all, except on a more clinical level.

I don't really dislike it overall though. Loney often, sure, but the moments of connection are so clear and refined I think it really makes up for it. Would love to hear any thoughts or experiences!