u/RentMaterial2775

hello, im looking to see if anyone else has had this experience and knows how to fix it. for some context, i am a very spiritual person and truly believes this ties back into me in my ex having a soul tie. we were together for almost a year and it was a very intense emtional and physical rls. we've been broken up for close to two years now btw.

when we were intimate, i would almost immediately get an infection. whether it was BV, UTI's or yeast infections (sometimes all three), i would always get one. we tried different things. we both switched our soaps, no more twinkies, witholding from intimacy, different diets etc. it wouldn't go away. it lasted like that for the entirety of our rls.

when we broke up, i, basically, have never had one again. now to my issue. back in july, i randomly got my period twice. i was so confused. this was all a week prior to him requesting to follow my account. fast forward, he requested to follow my instagram account ( i have him blocked on everything besides there because he blocked me first ). i was really thrown off and confused but sort of intrigued of what he wanted, because last i checked, he was in a new rls. i accepted the request. he texted me about something i still had of his. i agreed to give it back and that i would leave it outside of my house for him to pick up (i did not want to see or have a full conversation with this boy). A day after he got it, i got BV.

fast forward to now, last week i had been feeling horrible. i was exhausted, had headaches and felt as if i had a UTI. towards the end of the week the symptoms of the UTI were starting to lighten up. after being miserable all week, i decided to go out. that night he called to hook up. we have been no conatact for almost a year now, not including the time he texted for his things back. i said no and told him to fck off. i felt great rejecting him after all the pain i endured with him. i felt like i was riding a high having control of the situation and narrative.

all of a sudden, my uti symptoms worsen and i am now in physical pain.

where im going with this, is that im seeing a pattern of when he comes around. these past two times he came back, my body started to reject itself in a certain way. its almost like my body knows whats about to before i do. i truly believe we have a soul tie of some nature. there have been times that im extremely sad out of nowhere, and i will dream with him going through something rough in his life. its almost like my life is a broken projector of his life. those projectors that cant show the full picture and skips the audio and shuts down randmoly. i feel as if, since we are so spiritually involved with each other, its like i can still see or feel the things he is going through as if we were actively together. does this relate to anyone? has anyone else had this experience? if so, how do you get rid of it? how do you stop it? i want nothing to do with this boy. i want to move forward with my life, but a part of me feels like he's holding me back because of the nature of our rls. pls help