
u/RepulsiveTask7783

Unknown bulbs taking over garden
I think these are the same plant but there are hundred of bulbs growing a grass like blades out of them and some of them (at least i think is the same plant) have grown these seed pod things ?
My bf is very critical of fat people despite being overweight himself and it bothers me
As the title says my bf is extremely harsh when talking about fat people even though he is overweight. It really irritates me because I don't like being around such negative/hateful energy. I have tried to talk to him about this but he won't budge he says shame should be a tool used to make them change(horrible ik). I've asked if he would like it if I shamed him for his weight and he said yes but I know it would hurt him. I think anyone who is morbidly obese (500+) clearly has something going on mentally and deserves support. He has said things like "I hate fat people", called his uncle a "fat fuck", etc. I suspect some of this hate comes from insecurity because he used to be more overweight. It really bothers me and I'm not sure what to do, or if there's anything I can do?