u/RepulsiveTea3366

So I’ve found myself stuck in a cycle and I can feel my life slipping by.

I wake up, go to work, sleep, do it all again. Ok weekends, I wake up and sit on my phone all day and then wake up again back at work.

It’s a comfortable life for me at the minute and I have a set of friends I get along well with.

The only problem is I don’t even remember what I do all day on the weekends like a lot of young people addicted to their phone. It’s just the life I accepted but now I need a way out.

I plan to build up 1 hobby at a time until my week is filled with exiting things I look forward to doing for when I get home from work.

I know I want to go to the gym for 2 or 3 times a week. I want 1 sport a week (I’m thinking swimming because I enjoyed it before and I’m good)

I just want to find 1 more hobby. It needs to be something that gets me out the house and around more people. Does anyone have any suggestions?

Don’t worry if you think it sounds like a silly suggestion. I’m open to many options

The more I move through life, the more I’m disappointed.
I just hit 20.

I’ve had a bit of a sheltered life to an extent and the more I learn about people, the more I don’t like. I used to think that just kids are the main bullies but I learn day by day the adults are just as bad.

With the internet as well, it’s hard to find many people with any kind of decency and empathy.

It’s a shame but it’s just how it is

Feels like I spend all week at work trying so hard to make it to the weekends. They come around and I’m tired from work so I just chill at home all day for both days.

Then Monday comes around and I forget I even had a weekend and ask myself how I’ve managed to find my back to work again!!

Just a viscous cycle. One I’m aware I’m stuck in but too tired and lazy to do anything about.

Anyone have advice? I’m gonna assume it’s gonna be get off your lazy ass and do something with your life. Pick up some hobbies but I sadly never listen. Tell myself I’ll work it out next week