u/Resident-Champion181

Hi everyone! Need your advice!

I am having 4 bridesmaids: one childhood friend, one college friend, one work friend, and one friend from the city that I live in. The friend from the city that I live in is part of a friend group between her, myself, and another girl. The other person in our friendship won’t be a bridesmaid.

I need to confront that friend and let her know that she won’t be a bridesmaid but I’m worried she’s going to be upset and have this not only hurt my friendship with her but our other friend as well. I have a feeling she expects them both to be bridesmaids so this might come as a total shock.

Have any one of you been in this position before? What should I say? Am I thinking too much into this?

About to sign a contract with Delamar Mystic and curious if anyone has had their wedding there or been to one there themselves?

Just got engaged (yay)! Looking to plan a wedding for late summer - early fall 2027 in either NY or New England. Looking to start with a wedding planer, does anyone have any recommendations for this area that you would recommend? Thanks in advance!

About to get engaged and starting to brainstorm wedding venue options to be able to quickly book post engagement.

What I’m looking for
- Summer- Fall 2027
- Coastal vibes
- CT, RI, MA, ME
- Likely around 100-125 guests
- Budget: seeing the budgets of the venues will honestly help as I’m really exploring all options at this time!

Love love weddings at the Ocean House, CBI (likely outrageously expensive or all Saturdays are booked for next year), type venues if it helps provide recommendations.