u/ResponsibleAir2031

TL;DR: I am awake until 5:00-7:00 AM everyday. Wake up around 1:30 PM, I made apparent to said sibling way before this interaction. I get together with my mother 3-4 times a month while said sibling is an hour away and never makes visits.

Rest of my male siblings never make plans with me included on the initial phase. I’m more of a last minute “oh yeah he exists” invitee black sheep. Did I respond accordingly or am I an asshole who deserves less?

Edit because details are lacking and key points need discussed.

-My mother has a muscle disorder from hard labor that makes it hard to walk for long periods of time. The last time I went out with her and my brothers was 4 months ago and she was crying in pain from her back when we got to the car, stairs are hell and she uses a cane.

-I work and have adapted my schedule to overnights as is more comfortable. my 10 year battle with chronic insomnia has been terrible. Trust me if I could sleep and wake earlier I would

-I had my grandmother in the hospital bleeding from stitches in her eyelids this week
-had to go back to the ER because of the bleeding the bleeding on Friday.

-day of text: Saturday I had to watch my sisters children until 6:00 PM for her boyfriend to make her gift and received the message at 7:45 PM, asking if I was going to go out somewhere tomorrow with no set time and with no knowledge prior after making arrangements to go into the city and get gifts for the women of my household.

-I invited my mother to my house for dinner last night with texts to prove it if necessary for the reddit snarks who think I hate my mother. But she declined because she worked all day; as I do all night most nights.

-someone said I could stay up after baking all night and I find that disingenuous. Baking is hard, takes muscle and is pretty winding depending on utensils and recipe

-yes, could I have shaved 3 hours off of my 6 hour sleep yes. But she has vocally stated she would rather sit in with me and my littlest brother and watch a movie after a hard week than go out to the zoo or a museum.

Stop giving revenge and dodging. You are scum.

TL;DR stop being a cuck