u/Responsible_Cow_4920

We’ve been broken up since February, we dated 3 years and she immediately began dating other people . Told be so many flaws about me when I was trying to convince her to change her mind and eventually after finally getting closure I told her fine she’d never hear from me again and I finally let go. I began dating a new girl in May Iv been talking to her for 5 months and it’s been good and fun but now my ex has begun to text me .
She first texted me 3 weeks ago that she was in the area she came over and immediately began to make out with me and she said no to sex but gave me a bj .she only stayed for 20 minutes before she left and again didn’t contact me again
. Now again she called me this week on Wednesday she said she was in the dmv close to my house and I said ok? Did you want me to go there ? I’m only free for 30 minutes if so . And she asked what my days off where am maybe we can grab some lunch . I told her sure just let me know in advanced .
I know Corey Wayne says make her come to my place sp what do I do if she brings up going to eat somewhere ? Should I just join her ? Honestly my current girl has been taking care of my sexual needs so I honestly don’t care to much about sex but I’m just curious about the situation

33m , went through a breakup that made me lose my center ex gf(f31) of 3 and a half years left started dating new people , did it all begged and all that , did no contact she would return but I would somehow just continue acting beta I guess. Decided to let it go and move on , met a new girl in May early 20s funny but too young but we’ve been seeing eachother 4 months and she is my main girl I’m going out on dates with and hanging out , she calls me every day and have that old dynamic that me and my ex had. Completely communicated to my ex that I was moving on and we went our separate ways last interaction we had was August a month ago a whole month passed and she randomly texted me Saturday morning . That she was in the neighborhood, and I said she can come over if she wanted and she said ok . She came in and gave me a big hug and started making out with me then even rubbing my dick and all and I tried to have sex but she told me we aren’t having sex because she didn’t wanna have dick panties all through her day since she was headed to work and had a long day ahead but she did give me a blow job . I walked her to the door and she then made out with me some more , she even took a pic of my back to show her friends where she was at . Mi commented you know you don’t have to tell your friends everything, because to me her friends are the ones that convinced her to leave me . Anyways she left all happy but never texted me again . I feel like she just came to see if I was inlove with the new girl yet or something . I don’t know what to make of all that I just kinda brushed it off and went back to my life but it did spark a curiosity in me what did I do ? Was I too easy ? To nice ? To forgiving ?

Today a girl matched with me on tinder . She was 18 and really cute . We made plans almost immediately as she was highly interested in me because she was attracted to me . I said sure let’s hang out . We hung out 2 hours after matching and we played tennis then picked up food and came to my place . My roomate was home and saw her . I guess she looks pretty young but she works at a dollar general store so she is an adult but I still felt alittle embarrassed. In my room we got comfortable and it lead to sex . I took her virginity but she was sooo into the experience. I made sure it’s what she wanted and she went off to try some stuff she wanted to try with me . She looked super good tho I had a great time too . On the way to drop her off she actually asked if we could do it again in the car . I told her we can’t in the car as we were in a public place and asked if we can continue doing it . But like nothing serious just sex . And I said sure I’d be down for that.. I’m alittle embarrassed but while we were in public I mean people can’t tell we’re having sex maybe they think weee cousins or something lol it is what it is I guess she’s legal but this is the youngest girl iv hooked up with , I know socially it looks bad