u/Responsible_Ideal_18

I’m moving to London soon on my own, I’m a single dude in my early 30s, just wanted to know from your experience what’s it like making new friends and finding groups to fit in with? And as a single dude I have to ask what’s the dating scene like? 😂 Coming from a small town in Ireland where everyone knows everyone so coming to a new metropolitan city with such diversity is all new for me!

31M here, So I’ve signed up to a swingers site with my partner and we’ve decided to keep our accounts separate and explore a more open relationship, this is the first time we’ve have done anything like this and the first time I’ve personally done something like that, the one thing I’m having trouble with is first contact, how do you initially go about it? The normal hey how are is a bit boring and I’ve gotten no responses and then try an opening message where I dive into it a bit more like saying ‘I’m a confident dom but very considerate and good at taking things at other people’s speed, very chill and open to a lot of things’ I still get no response’s so not sure if I’m missing a line or if there is a certain kind of mannerism that needs to be involved?

A Bitta good news, if anyones noticed just how downhill Mia’s cafes pastry’s have gone in the last year or so, well the old pastry chef is back in Mia’s cafe, saw her in the back kitchen today baking all the old pastries, the diet is over 😂