Men -homophobic
Personally I have seen many men being scared and afraid of gays.
I get it few gays do touch u inappropriately and don’t leave until you give them money. But not every gay is that way.
I have seen many gay men working and they ask for consent, they don’t ask for money.
Men being afraid of gay is same as women being afraid of men.
Cause women face same kinda molest or harassment or catcalling from men.
Why is it fair men being afraid but women doing the same for same reason isn’t fair ?? To counter it they come with statement - NOT ALL MEN.
NOT ALL GAY MEN too.
Isn’t it hypocrisy ??
Also I feel one more factor added to the fear is that, gay men and straight men have same anatomy except for hormones (people who didn’t get hormone injections) they both have same physical strength. I guess this is one of the factor which adds fear.
Imagine if a straight man is alone and is approached by gay men, his fear is same as the woman would fear when she is alone and approached by men.
But she is physically little weak but straight men have same strength as the gay men yet their fear is valid but not ours.
I feel gender neutral laws can be launched only when all genders have same privileges.
Like everyone can go out without fear of being attacked or molested. Everyone’s dignity is treated as the same. Everyone is grown up with no tags of humiliation for being born the way they are.
If both men and women are brought up by teaching them how to play cricket, do chores, cook, do small repairs at home, lifting heavy objects, if both are trained physically and mentally on same level.
Then gender neutral laws make sense.
Else if the same laws come into existence right now, where majority of women don’t enjoy same privileges as men and aren’t raised physically strong as men, if a woman is attacked and graped, more probable cause man is physically strong, before she gets to complain in police station, if a man files a complaint against her saying he is graped by her. How would law decide who got graped ?? If on first comes first, it would be easy for men to file faster even they grape others, cause he didn’t lose anything to regain composure or come back from trauma.
I feel gender neutral laws should come only when every one has same privileges, else the minority gender (which commits less crimes) will always suffer. Gay men suffering and women suffering.
What’s ur take on this ??
EDIT: People bashing for not knowing difference between trans and gay. Let me tell you this, I didn’t want to mention those tags cause there are trans who love to dress up as woman without going through hormonal change, they have same physical strength as that of straight men. While trans who go through hormonal changes cannot be as strong as straight men.
MEDICAL PROCEDURE IS A PERSONAL CHOICE.
But both trans (no hormonal change) and gay men attract to one common gender- straight men, and all these three categories have similar physical strength.
So I specifically mention guys who don’t go hormonal changes.
