Need a feedback for my character (english isn't my first language)

one of my character grew up in dysfunctional family, suffered with verbal and sometimes physical abuse. Also parents constant fight over financial problems which would left her more and more traumatized. Society also didn't treated her right, the story is set in south asian country (i am from south asia so). Relatives constant neglect and not so good treatment to the family whenever they suffer with financial instability leave the family totally isolated and unstable. The mother is anxious way too anxious about things all the time and well of course take it out on the daughter(main character) The mother doesn't have good time in her life, she got married (arrange marriage) in chaos one guy wanting to marry her so bad that he even talked to the brother but fail (no the mother didn't liked her) and before marriage the mother childhood spent in a stereotypical way under patriarchal society, she didn't had the right to choose, she lived in fear most of the time, and lived her life in a way she won't get k*lled (honor k*lling). All of this of course made the mother not live happily she couldn't discover herself and saw women being punished for choosing partners or just simply choosing something for themselves or being punished for other's crimes. This was the mother's trauma which causes the mother to choose things that would allow her to just survive and not live. The father is toxic, he was once jailed when he got caught for the crime he didn't committed, he was there but wasn't involved in the crime but well. he couldn't lived his dreams, he grew up not wanting to obey anyone for anything. he wanted to become a martial artist but family never supported he also never had non problematic friends. After the jail drama he did got serious about life but he have already made his wife anxious as when he was in jail no one ever from the family supported his wife. she was all alone with worries of her husband being in jail, money problem and raising one child all on her own. before this jail drama the husband tried to invest in business which fails horribly and leads them to a little bit of dept. His wife have now developed what we can call financial anxiety and she is always suspicious (rightfully so) of who her husband gives money. He does gives money to like mother and sister even if his own family can barely afford. And the people he gives money to sometimes are actually have ok financial conditions not really good but not bad either. Alright all of this conflict makes husband and wife be toxic to each other sometimes get physically abusive with each other and children too. My main character have a brother too. Both of them suffers because of this conflict and both react differently but in harmful way. The brother end up being k*lled in arson and this pushes my main character more and more into darkness. she grew up isolated from her peers, had no proper friends growing up, very little to no focus in classroom at all. Teachers always complaining. My mc was never able to fit in anywhere and this causes her to be bullied by her mother all the time. Mc would also get compared a lot which k*lls their self-esteem every attempt my mc made to impress the mother or sometime father just failed. She was talented, she could draw and is actually interested in many topics but very bad in memorizing text book stuff which leads to her being below average student. She suffers like her mother as she is a woman too. not being able to choose anything for herself because she is a girl. The mother would constantly monitor her would bully her even when she was child, would say things like 'who is the guy stuck in your dirty head that you can't focus on the right things' Mc was never even interested because i made her asexual\aromantic. But even if she was not interested society have always looks at her suspiciously. These types of things of course made her angrier frustrated and her defense had always been just be away from everyone. Except on cousin sister she wouldn't talk really much to anyone else. School also didn't treated her right, there was this one female teacher who would bully her a lot. Why? because the teacher family had some conflict with the grandfather from mother side of mc. She ends up choosing the crime path. She don't suddenly chooses the crime path i will slowly push her towards that path. I want my main character to fit into anomic personality sociological concept. for that i want to make her more and more isolated that's why i slowly give death to every family member i described how brother dies. How the mother dies? Mc didn't give her her pills on time. yes she did it on purpose. The father was k*lled by the mafia leader because he didn't return the dept. he took. My mc under all the conflict she have been seeing and going through she have developed weird philosophies and beliefs and is also somewhat aware that non of what she beliefs is true. She wants to k*ll herself because she wants to dominate the most superior thing which is death, if she CHOOSE to die then she is more superior then death. Why she didn't k*ll herself yet then? because she wants to set up her death beautifully, she wants to built the house on the ocean's surface and then burn it and die in that fire. To her death is freedom that's why she believes she didn't k*ll her mother but set her free from her endless misery. And also the other people she k*lled weren't k*lled but set freed by her. (what do you guys think)

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u/RevolutionaryWait978 — 11 hours ago

What is capitalism and socialism? Can i get some suggestions?

I am so new to almost everything when it comes to politics and working class and history and capitlism. i did knew about patriarchy because well who doesn't. But first i am not good when it comes to language be it english or any other language my biggest weakness. i have been directly affected by whatever the hell this system do i am a woman in pakistan I have lived my whole life wondering when would be the day i would be free from shackles. My family is dysfunctional and if today i told my parents how i want to live i can suffer consequence i might not deserve, what i am getting to is i want You all to suggest me books or maybe youtube creators that explain everything and i can understand how the world works and how it is supposed to work and maybe about history of colonialism etc.

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u/RevolutionaryWait978 — 2 days ago

why just why

Why are jinx and lux not canon yet please. i want them together and marry each other come on riot please make them real girlfriends. I am so sad about it actually i really wish i could make them be with each other.

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u/RevolutionaryWait978 — 12 days ago
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I need some advice please.

So idk i have been questioning lately a lot of things. I am attracted to women yes 100% but i think i canhave sex with them or be romantically involve only if their is some special soul merging bond. But i do feel attracted to women in general like if i see my type of woman, i would get excited and would want to talk to her etc. Do you think demi sexual\demiromantic lesbian label is good for me? because i do not feel the same with anyone else. i don't feel romantic or sexual attraction to anyone else in any way. The reason why am i confused as hell is because i wouldn't really mind having sex with women if i find a woman who is my type maybe it's because i am also aesthetically attracted to women? can you please help me.

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u/RevolutionaryWait978 — 1 month ago

Demisexual\demiromantic lesbian?

So, i have recently discovered that i can't feel sexual attraction immediately with women I mean i thought it was normal to want a relationship after you know having such deep feelings for someone but there are lesbian who wouldn't mind dating or have intimacy even if there are no deep feelings and i was so depressed because i do want relationship with women but like it's just difficult to imagine being intimate unless their is deep soul merging type of relationship. Is there anyone else who struggled like this.

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u/RevolutionaryWait978 — 1 month ago

Be Free to correct and teach me please

So after for years of denying i like anyone and calling myself asexual\aromantic, i have not really happily accepted i am attracted to women. i have a lot of trauma growing up. I am hyper vigilant still living with highly toxic family(the honor k*lling type of toxic) i was sa'd as child since 7 or maybe before that idk. i do not remember how far it went nor i even want to touch that memory. wome around me have hurt me too so bad, some showed jealousy idk why they were jealous they had more then i could ever have. Whenever i tried to impress them it was always them pushing me back. I have made some coping mechanisms like total rejection of male presence once i am fully in control of my life. (i identified as asexual\aromantic at that time) i was like i will promote women education and give every opportunity to women specifically but also i can't just cut off men entirely because it's just statistically impossible so i was like i will only talked to men or be close to them through profession this and that. First i had aversion to romance and affection in general, i never really received affection anyway even as a child 'you are older and you are girl' this was what i heard. Now i have been seeing discourse about how so many lesbian hates bisexual women and i was like why do they hate bisexual women until i realize that bisexual women are attracted to women as well and they date lesbians too and it made me uncomfortable? weird. and then whenever i imagine being approached by one i feel like i should just hide somewhere (it didn't happen in real life, imagining scenarios is the only way for me to understand some of the things about me). I realize that i have prejudice against bisexuals. bisexual women feels like someone close to danger, close to someone who wants to harm me. Bisexual men, that they have access to lgbtq+ spaces and enemy is closer. did any of you struggled like that if it's not normal how do i get rid of it? I am still struggling to accept that i can like someone that i feel attraction and then this thing isn't helping me.

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u/RevolutionaryWait978 — 1 month ago