Adulting really sucks, I can't even find someone to talk to
I didn’t think adulthood would feel this lonely.
Everyone talks about freedom, money, careers, relationships… but nobody really talks about how isolating it gets. You wake up, work, deal with responsibilities, pretend you’re okay, then sleep and repeat. Somehow everyone seems busy, unavailable, or already has their own circle.
I miss when talking to people felt easy. Now it feels like everyone is emotionally exhausted or too distracted to genuinely connect. Even messaging someone feels like I’m bothering them sometimes.
The weird part is I can be surrounded by people and still feel completely alone.
I know I’m not the only person feeling this, but it still sucks. I just want someone I can casually talk to without feeling like I’m forcing a conversation or being “too much.”
Does adult life eventually get less lonely, or do people just get better at hiding it?
Wanna chat abit? Rant a bit? Laugh alot?
Ps: I'm 27, Female who is livin' off my grandmas basement lmao 🫠