u/RoughReverence

Gata, au trecut și emoțiile așteptării, au ajuns rezultatele, dar văd că mulți sunt în continuare nemulțumiți. O parte din voi pe bună dreptate. Dar totuși, aș vrea să comentez asupra unui aspect pe care l-am întâlnit la cam toate postările de genul.

Argumentul central este mereu :"Eu m-am corectat singur(ă) și trebuia să iau nota x.xx".

Vreau să discut despre asta pentru că am senzația că mulți nu înțelegeți ce înseamnă "să te corectezi singur". Ai dat proba, iei baremul în față, și (din experiența proprie) cei mai mulți mai întâi sesizează greșelile și după derapează pe panta: "aici nu cred că îmi scade", "aici nu îmi scade tot punctajul, doar x puncte", sau la probele de genul română/istorie/biologie etc. subestimează importanța formulării. Autoevaluarea NU se face așa. Iei baremul, sesizezi toate greșelile, și scazi absolut tot cât este posibil să îți scadă, fără "poate că..." la nimic. Oricât de proști credeți că sunt profesorii, greșeli știu să vadă, la bac nu a fost ca la simulare, cu umplutură de profesori fără experiență. Și nu, nu există nici corectori care să închidă un ochi aici și acolo.

Nu luați postarea asta în nume de rău, dar vă încurajați unii pe alții fără să vă știți situațiile. La contestații când o să vadă corectorul că îi vin enșpe mii de lucrări penibile de 7 și ceva cu greșeli evidente și formulări de genul "ma impresionat", "sau luat de mână" (și din nou, sunteți mulți așa din ce am văzut aici în câteva săptămâni) o să facă cu nervii, de aia contestațiile au o reputație proastă în sensul că o să ți se scadă mai mult decât sperai să îți crească. Până acum cel mai groaznic lucru e că am văzut că încurajați inclusiv persoane care au media pe muchie de cuțit gen 6.10, 6.15 să facă contestații. Mult succes în continuare!

Gata copii, s-a terminat cu stresul, nervii, frământările, ce a fost mai greu a trecut, lucrările sunt deja scrise, mare lucru nu putem face decât să așteptăm.

Așa că, aș vrea să aud cât credeți și voi că luați, sau cât sperați să luați, acum că au trecut toate probele, ați văzut bareme, ați schimbat impresii cu colegi/profesori

Eu îmi doresc:
-9.20/9.30 la română
-9.70 la istorie (aici credeam că o să fie cel mai rău și aparent a fost cel mai bine)
-8.80 la logică (aici simțeam că o să fie cel mai bine și am buftit o rău de tot)

Ce să zic nu mai zic nimic...

Deci la istorie la bac primesc subiectul, la subiectul 2 e minunat, la subiectul 3 eseu mai perfect decat atât nu avea cum, la subiectul 1 la ex. 7 mă gândeam ce plm e așa ușor vere. Dar la ex. 6.... vad interval 1866-1886. Bun. E clar ca daca incepe intervalu din 1866 vor Constitutia, am scris la ea, totul minunant. Ma gandesc la alt eveniment si zic ca asta sigur e ceva de la criza orientala. Bag PAULA ca n am invatat nimic de la rahatul ala de capitol. Imi aduc aminte asa cu greu de Tratatul de la Berlin din 1978. In loc sa las asa din moment ce nu stiu, cum ar face un om inteligent, ma pun sa bag de la mine "ca sigur nimeresc". Am scris acolo ca era vorba despre pierderi teritoriale ai ca Romania a cedat Bucovina si Oltenia Austriei 💔💔💔😿😿😿😿😿😿 ACUM M AM CHINUIT DEGEABA SA SCRIU FRUMOS SI CORECT LA RESTUL CA DUPA CE VEDE AIA LA INCEPUT O SA ZICA CA AM RETARD MINTAL.

Apar la perle oare?

edit(typo): Tratatul de la Berlin din 1878

O chestie interesanta pe care a observat o cineva e ca in 2019 la bac la romana a picat la alegere la real blaga/bacovia si la uman barbu/arghezi. Anul asta au picat aceleasi pe rand, la simulari blaga real barbu uman, la bac bacovia real arghezi uman.

Acum cateva zile se sufoca cineva pe aici ca o sa fie la mate la fel de greu ca in 2019 ca asa le a zis profa de la meditatii (parca asa era)

Deci daca stam sa calculam dupa legea circularitatii universale, cam are sens. In 2019 au picat la cele trei subiecte in ordine:

comunism
secol xx (in contextul crizei orientale)
domnitori + institutii

Mai exista si teoria ca in fiecare an aceleasi subiecte care pica la sesiunea speciala pica si la bac. Anul asta la SS a fost:

comunism
secol xx
domnitori

Deci in concluzie puneti va si repetati domnitorii ca lumea ca nu vedeti voi comunism la eseu din nou

poate e o intrebare extrem de tampita dar mai exact in ce parte a subiectului trebuie sa vorbesti despre stilurile functionale? trebuie sa vorbesti despre ele la 1 inainte sa zici despre receptor sau emitator sau ce te intreaba? stiu ca treaba cu partile de vorbire (emitator, receptor, mesaj, canal, scop etc.) sunt parti care intra la stilurile functionale dar mi se pare foarte prost formulata prima cerinta daca acolo se asteapta sa vorbesti despre stiluri integral. pls help

Hello guys, I am planing on reaching out to my ex again. Please bare with me.

I was really young when we dated (14) and she was 16 (both girls). It did not last long, I broke her heart. We went no contact if you could call it that, I (for some reason) did not want to have anything to do with her anymore, but immediately after the break up she tried to fix things before it was too late. It did not work, and we didn't talk for about two years. After two years I followed her on instagram and she accepted my request and followed me back, then she posted a few stories to catch my attention, and long story short we both wanted to talk to eachother again, in the sense that she even said she thought about reaching out first. We talked and I cannot even remember how much it lasted (a few weeks tops) and how it ended (probably bad again, because of me).

Then two years passed again and here I am, still thinking about her. Now, hear me out, I am fully aware of how many times I've fucked up and disappointed her. Especially after the last time I talked to her I acted extremely stupid and immature. Calling her when I was drunk (very easy to get drunk when underage in Europe), trying to reach out multiple times to the point that she blocked me on instagram, tiktok, whatsapp, phone number etc. it was all very stupid and I wish I could take it all back.

Last time I tried to contact her was on Whatsapp, the classic "happy birthday" move, but she left me on seen and then blocked me. This is a very obvious sign that she really, really doesn't want to try again for a third time. But this is where I feel like an asshole (and also stupid), I know after I'm finished writing this post I will try to email her again (I tried to email her too at one point and received no answer but I doubt that she actually blocked my email as well). But this time it will be different, respectful, I will say that I want to know at least if she is doing alright, how is college etc. and then ask her politely if she wants to talk again, if not then it's okay and that I wish her all the best. I have been missing her all this time like crazy. I will never have someone like her again and it kills me to think about it, that I lost her so easily.

And I know that I was much much less than what she deserves, but I really believe that after so much time I had gotten better, more mature (especially since I was a literal child back then) and that I would be able to treat her so much better, because it's what she deserves. So yes, I will try again, look stupid again, risk getting reported for harassment (lol) because the thought that I'll never have her again is driving me insane. Feel free to call me stupid and whatnot, or to share your thoughts if you have been in a similar position.

(Deleted and posted again because I accidentally chose the wrong flair and it blocked the comments)

Is anyone else in this situation? (Btw sorry if the text is not clear, english is not my first language but I try my best)

In terms of intelligence I had been professionally tested and I am slightly above average (110) but my dad is far from it and it's genuinely impossible for me to handle his stupidity. It's genuinely so frustrating it beats all the damage my NPD mom did including making me NPD myself.

My mom is actually doing a little better in this regard, I would say that she is close to my level. But my dad is the textbook example of a stupid person. He always had this image in his head that he was exceptionally intelligent, even though he barely passed high school while cheating on every exam he ever took. He was a little bit better (around C in american grading) at chemistry and that gave him the impression that he was worthy of going to national olympiads and that he had been born with a natural talent for it. Also, for this reason, he always blamed his mother because his father died and she said she couldn't financially support him when he was under the impression that he was going to get into MEDICAL SCHOOL. After that he got a job as an ambulance medical assistant, because the employment criteria was significantly weaker back then. All he ever needed to know and all he knows now after over 30 years of working is how to stick a butterfly needle. He is so confident in his intelligence that he calls everyone around him in any unfavourable context stupid, low IQ and even the r slur (his favourite tbh). He always talk down to me like I am the one with cognitive issues. Meanwhile, he cannot understand even the simplest concepts, for example I remember one time he got so mad at the fact that I asked him to call the owner of a studio we were going to visit in which I wanted to stay while I was in college, meanwhile he wanted to drop by unannounced and stagger into the administration office like a wild animal. And that drives this conversation to the most frustrating aspect about this whole thing, and that is his aggressiveness. He goes absolutely nuts, literally starts shaking when he is contradicted or when he is proven wrong or, most of the times, when he doesn't understand. He genuinely is the type of person that starts making scenes in public, argues with cashiers for "not doing their job" just because they won't open another checkout line (which is obviously not their duty) and so many more, especially the most random things, which makes these bursts unpredictable and unavoidable.

All of this lead me to genuinely hate him. Like despise him, and no, nothing that anyone could ever say would make me feel different about him. He genuinely has mental retardation genes (some of the relatives from his side actually live with it at this very moment in time) and the way he himself turned out makes me thank nature everyday for the fact that I am at least average.

Can anyone else relate to this? I feel like it's driving me insane and I am looking forward to cutting ties with them as soon as I am financially independent.