
I think many people, myself included, didn’t fully understand the meaning of Emma’s line to Scott: “The truth is, no matter how hard I try, I can’t help playing with fire. How about you, darling?”
This line makes the accusations from haters that Emma “deceived” Scott, “abused her power,” or “assaulted” him even more absurd. Scott directly asks whether this is still telepathic therapy or some kind of weird affair, and Emma does not deny that it has crossed the line. She does not say, “No, Scott, this is still "telepathic therapy".” Instead, she openly frames what they are doing as “playing with fire” — something dangerous, forbidden, and mutual. And Scott agrees to continue.
Not to mention that their first “session” was in New X-Men #128. Emma did not mention any sexology qualification there. She only mentioned it later in passing in #131. She was not officially working as Scott’s therapist; she simply had a qualification. Having a qualification is not the same thing as being someone’s official therapist with a professional agreement and all the rules that come with it.
So no, Emma did not trick Scott into thinking this was still therapy, and she did not force him. Scott knew he was cheating Jean and still chose to continue. The story frames it as an emotional affair, not coercion.