u/RoyalFearless4924

I'm 17, from Malaysia and born in 2009. Earlier this year, before entering university, I got a job as a waiter in a cafe from Jan to Feb. Everything went fine. There are perks like free food and drinks for staff.

I don't know why, but sometimes whenever I do a little mistake, some of the people who worked with me before are just stupid ass dickheads. One of them literally just yelled and threatened me for small things which aren't even that deep. He literally dragged me in the room and yelled at me more that it left an emotional scar.

Then there was this other senior who kept scolding me even when I'm trying to be friendly. He said hurtful things with bad words in it, and I've been trying to let go ever since this traumatic experience. On the last day, I was scolded again with foul language and got compared to a new worker. Like what? That's so unfair!

These two were nice and fun to the other workers, but treated me like shit. It's like I'm the punching bag of the workforce! Luckily I quit at the end of Feb!

Anyways, wanna share any traumatic experiences you had before as a waiter?

Hi, remember me? I used to have a crush on a certain girl in my university for like 2 months. But I suddenly moved on to another girl, who was my high school classmate and friend, and studies in another university. But my former crush keeps appearing here and there, even when I do not even like her anymore. Like what? I kept trying to go different ways, here and there. But she's always appearing in those spots I usually go to! She unblocked me on Instagram, but I gave her a taste of her own medicine, also blocking all her social media accounts, from Instagram to Threads(I don't have her number, but that's not necessary.).

Even when I blocked her back, it still doesn't work. She just appears wherever I go. Whether I'm just going to buy a drink, having lunch, or studying! Why? Why does this happen?!

I just want to avoid her. Any tips on avoiding a former crush?