Well I decided to stop being bald and I let my hair grow back, fun finding out im grey already. I just moved to Quincy about a month ago, i'd like to find a barber I can visit probably once a week or ever other week. I've got basic white guy hair with a slight recede in the front and I usually go for a high skin-fade all around. Appreciate the recomendations!
I'm a 34 year old male. For aesthetic contect, im 6'2, 190 pounds, working professional. When I'm just being casual, headed for a coffee or to a venue (Im involved in my local dance music scene), I really like the look of oversized, heavyweight t-shirts I see. Usually paired with some slim-chinos, always neutral colored. My question is whether or not at 34 years of age I can pull off a shirt like that without looking immature. I typically wear more form fitting shirts but honestly those oversized Ts look really cool to me, and comfortable. Can I get some thoughts? Thanks.
Edit: I tried buying one, this brand called Herberton, feels really soft and idk looks "nice" for oversized, but I wish the collar was tighter. It was olive green flat with black chinos and white sneakers.
I'm a single 34 year old male. I love in a big city so I like to go out and socialize, not necessarily to meet a significant other but also for that reason. I don't use apps.
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I went out to a bar near my apartment just to check out the scene, and I got to talking to a group of people. One of the women in that group and I were discussing some some relatable things, and at the risk of being cringy it was one of those "instant chemistry" moments that almost never happens. I think I can count two times including this one where that happened to me.
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To be fair, and for added context, we were not drunk but definitely feeling the drinks a little.
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I ended up walking to the back to use the restroom. After coming out, she cornered me, planted a PASSIONATE kiss and hug on me, and gave me her number before leaving. I was extremely into it, can't explain it.
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The next day she messaged me, asked if I wanted to meet her on break for a coffee for about an hour. I of course said yes. I met with her, she was incredibly nervous, like visibly anxious I was kind of concerned. So I sat down and asked her what's going on. She then explained that she's actually been engaged for awhile, to someone who was also there in her group that night. She said this has never happened before, she has no idea what to do and she was questioning everything, but we had crazy chemistry and couldn't help herself. She even shed a tear I was kind of taken aback by it. So I told her let's just chill out for an hour and just drink the coffee,.might as well not freak out. She explained she has a couple issues with her fiance and she's never cheated on him, but has questioned it before. She was very confused about what to do.
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The hour was up, we got up to leave, I wasn't sure what to do or say but she kind of grabbed me again, planted another fat kiss on me, apologized and then we left. She has periodically been keeping in touch with me.
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I appreciate the advice.
Theres been a barage of sirens and emergency vehicles/police going by (I live near Quincy center) almost every 10 minutes every day since I moved in (i've been here a week). Is this abnormal, or typical? To be fair, I moved here from the much less populated and admittedly quieter western part of the state (Chicopee), so maybe this is normal for the area idk. But it's almost nonstop - theres another one right as im typing this. Appreciate the insight.
EDIT: places outside of Quincy in the surrounding metro area work as well.
Hi everyone, I'm moving to Quincy on June 1st, originally from Chicopee. I'm very familiar with the Boston Metro area overall, but it's been a minute. I'm 34 and wondering where the folks my age like to hang out? I'm a single man with no kids, and pretty extroverted so I definitely would like to put myself out there and socialize.
Please don't answer with "at home" - because that's not helpful and I'm willing to bet very inaccurate.
Thanks!