u/Rude-Situation575

There’s nothing wrong with cheating or emotionally cheating on abusers. The most dangerous time for a woman statistically is when they leave their abusers, so I would never hold it against a woman for not waiting until they leave an abusive relationship (although of course leaving should always be encouraged and that should always be the goal as long as the person is safe to do so). And given Roy’s antics at the bar with his cousin and how they trashed the place after Pam admitted to what she had done, it would not be shocking, honestly I would expect it, if his verbal abuse didn’t escalate to something physical after marriage. Hot take? Probably. But it’s true regardless. Pam did nothing wrong and ppl continually dragging her for it are rather silly at best, predatory at worst. Are we really saying she should stay loyal and only try to nourish her abuser? Yeah I don’t think so. And if you do, you probably support abusers and think that abusers deserve any respect when they’re not engaging consensually in a relationship. F* that.