Should I tell my ex I want him back
Pretty sure he’s not on reddit or at least this sub so posting it here.
We broke up recently because of my personal circumstances, which was unexpected for both of us. I know and I deeply regret that I should’ve tried to fix things or at least should’ve asked for a break first to work on it, but at that time I had absolutely no control over it. After the breakup, I initiated a set of big changes. It was not an easy process, but eventually it turned out better than I thought. So I’m now in a better situation, while I still definitely need to work on more things.
I love him very much and I want him back. All I want is to just wake up next to him in his arms. If he declines, which I honestly do believe he should because of numerous reasons, that’s completely fine. I know I deserve that. I’m the one who abandoned him without even trying. I just really want to tell him how I tried to work on things and want to shoot my shot because life is too short not to do so. What am I gonna lose more by doing so if I’ve already lost him..
But I also don’t want to be selfish and hold him back from moving on. I feel like I should I let him go and wish him the best if I love him.
Any advice will be greatly appreciated!