u/SPdelaH

Unfortunately, I don't know the artist who made the drawing. Relationship goals. 😁🔥

I think women not only have difficulty finding love, but also having trouble connecting with others in general.

I've already accepted that love isn't easy, but I absolutely need to work and meet people. Without contacts and without a job, I can't earn money. At 31, I find it incredibly difficult to find job opportunities (I live in Spain, where finding employment is a nightmare), and without money, I can't move out of my parents' house. (Girls with wealthy boyfriends are so lucky).

Sometimes I have negative thoughts about why I can't get hired. Just because I'm a small and extremely thin woman, I get the feeling that people think I'm not capable of doing things like a woman of a more average weight. I'm also bottle blonde and I wear glasses, so people think I'm some kind of spoiled brat who can't do anything.

I also think that only sexy, pretty girls who exude confidence and self-assurance get opportunities in corporate jobs, for example. I studied to work in companies, but for some reason, people look at me with pity and confusion. Like, "Do you really think you can aspire to a job like that?"

And it's true, because whenever I have the chance to talk about myself in front of someone important, I feel like I'm going to burst into tears. I can't even look that person in the eye. Besides, I'm largely ashamed of my art studies. Whenever I say I studied Fine Arts, most people tell me I should have studied something else because I'm totally screwed.

It's sad, because I've been in therapy for years, and yet I still find it incredibly difficult to be a normal, functional adult.

I needed to say this to see if I'm a special case. See ya.

100% Original characters!!! This is no promotion, I promise. I just decided to create a slightly more cheerful post here, since it's so sad to find hundreds of messages from very lonely and sad women. I'm a 31 years old virgin woman who studied Fine Arts. I'm not successful as a person and I hardly make any money from this. However, I think art saved my life in some way. All my lonely years I spent all time creating my own world and characters and that helped me to deal with my mental health issues. Doing these kinds of drawings has even been therapeutic.

I'll tell you that the pink guy is my inner monster, and I'm absolutely in love with him. I love him with all my heart and keeps me sane even in my crisis moments. From this point I consider him more than a simple fictional character.

I always fantasized about being best friends with one of these guys. I wished one of them would be my friend when I was in high school and protect me from all the dangers, like bullies, popular girls, and strange people on the street.

Do you like these kinds of male characters? Do you like when a freak, human girl enjoys the company of a monster? I would like to know what you think!!! If you like it, I can share my drawings of cute monsters from time to time. But if anyone hates this kind of post, please let me know. 

I'm sorry my English isn't the best. I try to keep it basic enough so that I can be understood nicely.

See ya :)

...Y si no, no vendas en esta app.

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