u/SUNMOONBIPOLAR

I yearn for a man who is ambiverted, but more introverted than I am. Mysterious! I’d like him to ideally be interested in the social sciences—particularly philosophy—so he could educate me on it, because I like when people explain things to me. He should also be apt at fixing things, cooking meals, domestic things, you know… I don’t really like taking care of that.

In return, I will take care of the children—I am very good with kids—their education, giving them freedom and inspiring their imaginations and getting them in touch with themselves and interested in bettering the world. I will take care of social situations, I will delight him and entertain him. I want to be a princess; he should open a jar for me because I’m weak. I want to be the showgirl. I want to surprise him sexually and do crazy things so he is never bored. I want to be babied and have my physical needs taken care of—he must feed me when I’m sick, for example—but he must also be aggressive in bed.

I also like a bit of drama in relationships. I like the tension of feeling delicate and protected. Sometimes I can even cry on command just to incite his instinct to care for me and protect me. I’ll grab his hand purposefully so he can admire how small and delicate I am in comparison. But somehow, at the same time, I am also like a whimsical child who makes him see the world in a more colourful light—someone who brings wonder, playfulness, softness, and a little magic into his life.

Thank you

Offer people advice and tell them what to do related to their body & finances or even life decisions…
“Take care of yourself! Your appearance! Don’t eat that…this…”
“Make sure you pack three weeks in advance…”
I find it insufferable, I believe that sort of advice is useless. I think people should let others live accordingly and learn from experience.

I’m constantly typed IEE but I don’t see how that would make sense considering philosophy is seen as a ti heavy discipline

Hello everyone!

I’m majoring in philosophy and English lit (though I’m mostly only into the creative writing side). I’m really drawn to the humanities and social sciences—I like understanding people, what motivates them, and what’s going on underneath what they show on the surface.

On the outside I probably come across pretty normal and stable, but internally I’m a lot more sensitive and emotionally layered than people first assume. I feel things deeply, even if I don’t always broadcast it…like people think I’m serious and composed until they get to know me.

I’ve been traveling a lot since I was 18 and I get restless staying in one place for too long. I like new environments, new experiences, and anything that shifts my perspective. I also work with youth frequently!

In my friend groups I’m actually the jokester and pretty dramatic. I lean into humour, exaggeration, etc.

Career-wise I’m kind of exploring a few paths: high school teacher, university professor, journalist, or TV broadcaster—anything that involves communication, ideas, and working with people in some capacity.

Music is a big part of my life. I’m into underground rap, experimental music, hyperpop, folk, soul, and jazz. I like things with emotion, texture, and originality. I also love singing—it feels like one of the most direct ways I can express what I’m feeling.

I’m also very into films, especially classic cinema. I can be a bit pretentious about it—I gravitate toward things with strong artistic direction rather than mainstream stuff.

One thing about me: I really don’t like being told what to do. I find it patronizing and I strongly prefer figuring things out on my own, even if it takes longer.

So overall, I’d say I’m curious, expressive, a bit dramatic, outwardly composed but internally sensitive, and not super easy to pin down.

My biggest weakness…love. I love the idea of falling in love with like mysterious tortured men who have a tendency to be avoidant LOLL.

I also suck at like physical things if that makes sense??? Can’t really take care of myself and want a man to do that for me.

So… what’s my type?!