Im Romanian and my boyfriend is Puerto Rican.
We're expecting our first baby.
My due date is on valentine's day.
i think having a name revolving around it would be cute.
Is it weird to want to name her Valentina. Vale/vv/tt for nickname im not into the nickname Tina though.
please let me know what you all think thank you.
Im trying to prepare, this is my first baby at 26. Im half way there and wanting to shop. But im so confused on what all I need clothing wise. what sizes what type of clothes ? so far i have 4 onsies dual zip long sleeve 0-3 + 2 thick warm ones for outings because it will be cold where i live. i feel so weird when shopping and my mom is always saying dont buy newborn they wont be that size for long but shouldn't I have a couple just in case ? Im just lost how much do I need and what sizes do I get.
It will be at 16 weeks 5 days pregnant. It landed on my husband's weekend but he got called into work, And now he cant make it. I want to cry, Im so anxious and nervous. I just want him there for me. What if something is terribly wrong, and im going through something so traumatic on my own. Now I have to bring my mom but it isnt the same. He bought me a fetal doppler to help me with anxiety and i haven't been able to find anything so thats adding to my worries even though i haven't had any concerning symptoms or previous loss. Its been hell wondering if everything is okay. No one seems concerned about anything being wrong but me. I feel crazy, My mom and husband are so positive and happy thinking everything is fine and its healthy. I wish I could feel like that like everything is fine. I haven't told people because im so concerned something is wrong and i then i have to tell people I lost it. I dont want to lose it. I want everything to be okay.
This is my first pregnancy, im 8 weeks and a Couple days pregnant. Ive been extremely tired and uncomfortable in my body, just nauseous not feeling the greatest.
He said he was hungry again and I said I wasnt.he wanted another Quesadilla, I made him one after work. he asked me to make another one because he was naked and didnt want to go upstairs. I said I am too and I dont feel good im pregnant. he said come on its early ive seen pregnant people do alot u could even cut the grass.
I said i cant cut the grass? I can barely do anything right now without almost puking my guts out. Ive been bedridden basically this entire first trimester i dont feel like myself. He said get rid of it then.
I said that comment is so disgusting to make towards ur unborn child.
And that was after I gave him head.
So i guess his true colors are showing.
I feel worried about my baby, i have alot of anxiety until my first ultrasound. They wont schedule me until 12 weeks And now I feel like hed be happy if something goes wrong.
i want my baby, and im very excited to be a mom.
I do not want to be with him if he isnt going to be supportive.
Beforr He was acting concerned about my health and telling me to relax not be stressed. he was also hugging me when i found out. he was cooking me meals. Telling me how hes going to pay for everything sense i have no one to give me a baby shower an not to worry. that i need to be careful now that im pregnant.
I honestly dont know where this came from.
Everytime i bring something up about the pregnancy he listens agrees but then changes the subject.
I want to have a serious discussion with him about his hurtfulcomment. If hes not going to be supportive I will do it alone with my mother who is extremely supportive.
I honestly just cried about it while hes sleeping for work. I never thought hed say that. This hasnt been easy for me and im trying to stay positive and happy.
I feel so disgusted he said that, like he has no regard for my baby or my feelings.
I just want to detach from him after that honestly how dare he say that. I feel completely rejected I dont feel loved, i want to go to the ultrasound alone. I dont see us coming back from his comment.