My Wife [30F] had her first migraine and has have a few since then, including today. Is this just her new life now?
Hello all,
My wife is currently having a migraine now. I give her whatever she wants and asks for; she is currently asleep thankfully. I am just trying to understand if this experience of getting cursed with migraines is typical. I have been reading that it may be typical because 1 in 4 women experience repeating migraines around their late 20s and 30s.
Her first migraine was triggered by walking out of a building and seeing the bright sky. She had an aura and had difficulty thinking & reading. Neither of us has experienced a migraine, so this was all new to us. I took her to the ER because I was genuinely spooked. The ER doctor who saw her referred her to a neurologist and mentioned that she may have a "complex headache", but googling since then I believe it is formally called "complex migraine"?
She has seen her general physician and the neurologist since the first migraine. No doctor believes this is anything serious. Regardless, she will have an MRI next week.
I suppose my question is to people who suffer this unfair problem: did you just get your first migraine and now all of a sudden you are living your life around them? I can tell this is making her a bit depressed and she feels guilty for "ruining my free time" (I don't care about my free time I just want her to feel good again). Is this something we will just have to learn how to live around?