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The more I learn about psychology, the less I blame people.

The more I think about psychology and how people think and react, the more I feel like we can’t really choose our personalities. We don’t choose to be good or bad; a lot of it comes from our brains, nervous systems, and life experiences.
Because of that, it’s hard for me to get mad at selfish or angry people. They’re reacting the way they’re wired and with time it became hard for me because u just hurt ur self, i’m good with bad people just because i feel they didnt choose to be like this.
Sometimes I feel that being deeply aware of psychology isn’t easy to live with.
Has anyone else felt like this? I need people with same experience.

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u/Salamanber — 3 days ago
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Can we ban all moroccans who deny everything

And say it’s not true and start to insult? Krahthoem

I am not talking about moroccans who are condeming the attacks and stay respectful

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u/Salamanber — 4 days ago
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If you doubt why the gouvernement is pro Western Sahara

Please watch the video, it’s only 30 minutes long but give at least the first 15 minutes a chance.

I always thought our gouvernment was distracting us but I think leggit they are on the right side of the history.

Free Western Sahara 🇪🇭🇪🇭

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u/Salamanber — 9 days ago

Is this streamentry?

Is this stream entry? I'm not really sure what to make of it, but lately I've had this feeling that everything is just a process, everything has a cause and an effect, everything is just conditioned. Everything comes from somewhere, which means I can no longer feel anger toward people, or hold grudges—or rather, I have less of that. No resentment. When something happens, I do feel something, but I just let it go, because I am also part of the process, and it's all just a process. I feel as if I'm looking at samsara, which is just a collection container, a container that is a gathering place of causes and effects. It just keeps going. It's all processes. So when people do something stupid or something, it is what it

I have complete acceptance. I feel lighter. It's as if I've peeled an onion, and I've removed all—not all the layers, but many layers—and I notice that there's just nothing inside me. It's as if my ego was a very heavy block on me, causing me problems, while for a long time I thought it was protecting me. It's an illusion that is simply fading away from me. Should I say much lighter? It's just… it is what it is. I also had a strong impression that everything ‘I see’ could actually be me. So other people—they are simply the result of all causes. There's no longer a difference between him and me. I could be him, and he could be me.

I attach less importance to myself, because it's all just an illusion. Once you've seen it, you realize it's just a flow, as if you're part of a river current. You just go with the flow. You're influenced from left and right, and that determines how you flow in the river, but that is gone now. It is what it is. I can let go of all of it. I also know that I see my example as a phase, something that has changed, something that is there, but I am not it. Everything I have is just a process. I simply can't put it any other way.

I used AI to translate btw

Let me know guys, may you escape samsara

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u/Salamanber — 2 months ago

What is this experience?

I had today a really deep understanding that everything is just a process, every animal and person I saw. Everything is very dynamic. Not knowing but really really seeing!

Seeing every person and understanding they are just the product of causes, him is me and I could be him in another causeconstruction, thus I don’t feel seperatly from him. ‘My compassion’ grew instantly bigger for every being, a lot of burden went away and felt super happy…

This is also is about ‘me’, I am just a combination of cause nothing else, thus I don’t much importance of ‘myself’, it’s nothing more important and different than ‘him’

What is this? Do you recognize this?

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u/Salamanber — 2 months ago

Please first check my my previous topic to understand the following text.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Buddhism/s/d7VlKNCWxs

I dunno what’s happening lately but I feel a serious emptiness. I am for work in luxembourg city and everything feels as a skhanda. Seeing everywhere emptiness.

I am losing a lot of desire for sensual pleasure, it doesn’t really interest me because it’s just ‘fake’

Does anyone have that too? Just wanna meditate and enjoy my peace

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u/Salamanber — 2 months ago