M | 30 | Islam | Single | Dhaka | Software Engineer
Age, Gender & Height
30, Male, 5'8" (173 cm).
Brown-skinned and on the slimmer side (52 kg).
Preferred Age Range
No strong preference.
Location & Willingness to Relocate
Uttara. I've lived here for most of my adult life.
I once had the opportunity to move abroad but chose to stay. Relocating isn't practical for me at the moment, though I'm open to the possibility later in life.
Nationality
Bangladeshi.
Marital Status
Single. Never married.
Ideal Marriage Timeline
Around 3–5 years from now.
I'm interested in building a relationship first rather than treating marriage as something to rush into.
About Me
I spend a lot of time in the world of ideas.
Professionally, I'm analytical by nature and genuinely enjoy the work I do. I chose this career intentionally, and I'm fortunate that curiosity and work overlap quite a bit for me. I'm also ambitious, not because titles or status matter much to me, but because I enjoy the process of getting better at something meaningful. The feedback loop of learning, building, and improving is deeply satisfying.
Outside of work, I probably experience life a little more intensely than average. I tend to notice beauty in small things, and I've come to accept that beauty and suffering often coexist. I wouldn't trade that perspective for a simpler one.
Despite all the introspection, I'm fairly easygoing in person. I enjoy good conversations, dry humor, wandering cafés, and the kind of evenings where time disappears because the discussion is genuinely interesting.
What I'm Looking For
Someone who:
- has a strong sense of independence
- is emotionally mature and intellectually curious
- tries to say what she genuinely believes to be true
- appreciates nuance and the little things
- has a sense of purpose rooted in a rich inner life
More than shared hobbies or personalities, I'm interested in how someone thinks and how they make sense of the world.
Religiosity
Spiritually reflective, though not traditionally religious. I value self-awareness, philosophical inquiry, and people who are willing to question their own assumptions.
Education
I studied Computer Science with a minor in Mathematics at a reputed private university.
While I naturally relate well to people with a similar academic background, I care much more about curiosity and the willingness to keep learning than credentials themselves.
Career
Machine Learning Engineer / Assistant Manager at a multinational company.
Do I Want Kids?
Depends on my partner.
Hobbies
- Reading—classic literature, psychology, philosophy, art, culture, and Asian literature.
- Writing (something I've recently returned to).
- Exploring music and films.
- Long conversations with friends or café acquaintances about ideas, people, and life.
Something Interesting About Me
I spend a lot of time examining my own thoughts. Sometimes it leads to useful insights; other times it's just overthinking with better vocabulary. I'm still figuring out which is which.
A Question For You
What's something you've changed your mind about in the last few years?
I'm less interested in what you think than in how you arrived there.
Preferred Method of Contact
A Reddit DM is a good place to start.
I'm not much of a texter and generally prefer face-to-face conversations, where far less gets lost between words. Once we've spoken a little, I'm happy to move to Discord.
I also don't use mainstream social media. No Facebook, no Instagram.