u/Salt_Ganache_3800

Need advice on Marriage

I’m in a kind of mess .
I (30) am in a relationship with my gf(27) since 4 years.
We had decided to get married last year but our families haven’t spoken to each other due to multiple family issues. Although our families know about our relationship.
Few months back her mother passed away. Now, my parents are pushing really very hard. My father says we don’t have any assurance from her family, which I agree.
Today, her family has made it clear that they won’t allow her to marry me.
Now, at this point, I really don’t understand what am I supposed to do.
I’m shattered and numb and have no idea how to deal with this.
What should I do?

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u/Salt_Ganache_3800 — 2 months ago