u/Same_Confection8984

i, F, have recently started seeing someone. we had sex a couple weeks ago(ish) and he tried to go down on me, but i said no bc i was nervous about not being “up to par”. i just really like him and i’m so worried ab tasting bad. i don’t wanna embarrass myself.

any tips on how u, personally, got over this feeling or something to help ease my mind? anything helps! i dont see him again for another week and a half, so i have time to prepare lol.

[imagine i do all this worrying and when time comes and i let him do it, he isn’t even good 😭 hope that isn’t the case.]

F21 5’6 215 smokes cigarettes

there’s one specific person that i hooked up with 2 years ago and ended up getting thrush. i wasn’t 100% sure it was from him, but now i am because we just hooked up again and now i can see it coming back! i’ve kissed many people since last time i saw him and i’ve not seen any thrush since i got it treated originally. i, thankfully, had an extra fluconazole pill that i went ahead and took in hopes that’ll help since it just came on today (we hooked up last night). i’m gonna go to the walk in clinic tomorrow or tuesday. (i know it’s thrush from last time i had it. i’m pretty annoyed!)

my question is, what do i need to tell him? or HOW do i tell him? i take stimulants and smoke so yes my mouth is a bit drier and probably has more than the normal amount of yeast, HOWEVER, i’ve never had this issue w anyone else. to my knowledge, neither has he. should i suggest he take a fluconazole? i know it’s not proper to give someone else a prescription meant for u, but if i can get one then maybe i should give it to him and just say that this happened both times so it must be taken care of. and we will both try and take care of it so it doesn’t seem like i’m blaming him? please help!

F21 5’6 215 smokes cigarettes

there’s one specific person that i hooked up with 2 years ago and ended up getting thrush. i wasn’t 100% sure it was from him, but now i am because we just hooked up again and now i can see it coming back! i’ve kissed many people since last time i saw him and i’ve not seen any thrush since i got it treated originally. i, thankfully, had an extra fluconazole pill that i went ahead and took in hopes that’ll help since it just came on today (we hooked up last night). i’m gonna go to the walk in clinic tomorrow or tuesday. (i know it’s thrush from last time i had it. i’m pretty annoyed!)

my question is, WHY!!!?? i know i kind of have more yeast in my mouth than normal because i smoke and im a little dehydrated. i pretty much only drink water. i do have soda here and there and sweet tea. most days only water. i think he mostly drinks not water. he smokes weed a lot and vapes nicotine. what do i need to tell him to fix? i think maybe cut out the soda? or what 😣😣😣

in the merch line right now. is there anyone who is also here who has already gotten merch or is close to the table? do u know if anything is sold out and when ethel may come out?

how do i help a guy last longer? i had sex w this guy a couple years ago and when i say it didnt even last a minute before he came. tried to keep going but he fell limp after (which i believe is relatively normal) it had been a while since he’d had sex so i wasn’t upset or anything. i totally understood. we stopped talking but now we’re friends again and in the event we end up having sex again i fear the same thing may happen. any tips on how to prevent this? or should i let him cum once, give it a second and then just keep going until it doesn’t last less than five minutes (or enough time for me to cum)?