u/Sapphicbeauty

Are there any africans or african diaspora here? And if yes which country are you from?

Hey everyone! Im a transracial adoptee and ive spend years trying to ignore being adopted but now im deciding to face it. Has anyone managed to make peace with not knowing your bio family or not even having information? Is there a way to make peace with it without acting like it is unimportant? I feel guilty if my happy living a life far away from my bio family even tho ofcourse i didnt choose any of this. I am thining of eventually researching on my own and visit my birth city but that is for the future

How do you know if you are presenting high femme or femme becuase you want to or because you want to fit in? Ive been feminine all my life but never felt content and often felt happier when i dressed more relaxed or artsy or whatever but i feel this immense pressure to appear straight passing. Has anyone gone through this?

Has anyone used dating apps and gone on dates while visiting other countries or is this a waste of time?

Can someone recommend a queer black discord? Or a discord where their are also black queers from europe?