u/Saylum_the_Kitty

Deapite the title I absolutely love passing. I've been out since like 2018 but only recently got on hrt (last July) and I've just started a new job and everyone just like... knew I was a guy. The first time they gendered me right I was totally assuming it was a one time thing. Nope, they just think I'm a cis gay man. Even patients have corrected themselves on my gender. I walked in to a mans room and called out to ask if I could come in before he could even see me and he fr went "Oh come in ma'am." Then he saw my face and went "Oh, I'm so sorry sir." 😭

Its so freaky how quickly it all switched and also how quickly I was just thrust into the mens room. Mens room is scary but I guess I'm banned from the womens room.

But also getting used to the women at my job not talking to me when I used to and also catching myself before I go "Oh yeah, well yk I've never been pregnant myself..... AND AND I NEVER WILL CAUSE LIKE I CANT...and uh...." 🧍‍♂️ (based on a completely true story)

Tldr; I'm not used to passing and its pretty jarring to be in an environment where I can stealth for the most part.

Just got a new job at Mayo but my shifts are set to start a 7am. I can bus mon-fri but I work 2 weekends out of the month when the bus doesn't come by till around 7:15. How good are early morning Lyfts/Uber's on the weekends in the early morning? Went through a ton of posts of this sub but didn't find anything recent. Thank you!

Edit: I live in SE roch, Marion rd

I'm three steps closer to living on my own.

Starting a new job next week.... a new job I can support myself solo with!!

Got myself a credit card (secure savings) so I can raise my credit to save myself the hassle of low credit affecting my apartment prospects.

And found 4 apartments only a 5 minute walk from my job and (currently) within my prefered budget!

I wont be able to move out till next March comfortably so the next year I will be grinding like my life depends on it but I really have hope now.