Toxic Director in my team not approving leaves

So, let me give you guys a background. I am a 21 year old woman and just passed out college. I joined 2 months ago in one of the big 4 in the Valuations team at an Analyst level through a referral. Plus I am a fixed term employee for just one month because I plan to do MBA in the future while I am doing my Professional Courses like CFA. So in Nov I have the exam, for which I need 4 days leaves. I asked my partner he said “okay sure” “tell your managers then put it in the system”. So I went to the Director to ask he said “what is your utilisation” “what is your billable” “what work are you doing” “I didn’t see you on the client review” “come back to me with the list of work you have done then we will talk”. Dude I prepared the list and went to talk to him. He was busy and left the office. Apparently I was on of his engagements but I was just give basic work. Barely been 2 months and he is telling me your utilisation is low and etc etc etc. I am entitled 22 leaves a year.

So fyi, I have asked my team members and managers for work here and there. But I don’t get much work as of now. I try to take the initiative but they don’t give a lot of work like the managers because I am new and a fresher or they aren’t bringing much business 💀🙏. It isn’t even our peak season. Btw my managers don’t mind me taking the leave. I haven’t taken any leave yet. And btw got to know from my team members he is the most toxic guy you will encounter here who like to act like a “boss”. God what the fuck man. Btw this guy didn’t even know my name and designation properly let alone my employment status.

TL:DR; Director not approving leave cuz he thinks I don’t do any work.

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u/Scared_Coyote_5284 — 14 days ago

Feeling stressed and stuck in life right now

So, little about me I am just 21 living in delhi with my parents. I have recently graduated and joined one of the big 4 as a Valuation Analyst. Thinking of getting some work experience then pivot to a MBA along with the completing my professional courses. Also I am trying to be healthy like lifestyle changes. I am kinda ambivert too. Also I am in a relationship from last 3 years which is recently turned long distance relationship.

So right now it’s been just 2 months into the work and I feel so monotonous, bored, alone in the whole team. I try to talk and ask for more work but it’s so frustrating at some point talking to these people. Also I am the youngest in the team.

Lately my periods have been delayed by 5 days or more. I took a pregnancy test last night and it was negative. I did have unprotected sex right after my last cycle ended. I am due to go to my gynaecologist tomorrow. Also my mother and father found my kit in my bag and they were pissed I covered it up saying it’s my co workers which I think they still suspect it’s mine. But anyways I don’t care. My mother knows I have sex with my boyfriend but that’s a discussion of another day. But my periods are delayed and they were everytime so regular. I just hope it’s not a big illness or even a pregnancy I have gotten.

I have high ambitions and dreams, lately from last 2 months I am unable to concentrate on my studies after work and my exams are due in November and then in February. I have no motivation to study lately. I wanna go to the gym build strength and become healthy. But nothing is happening. My friends are also out of town and even my loving boyfriend. Man I just feel so stressed, tired and disturbed. I really need some advice and support.

Nothing is going right or in my control at all lately my body, my mind, my mood, my work, my life, my everything. I really feel lonely and alone right now. I cried to my boyfriend last night on the video call, he consoled and tried to be there for me but I get it he can’t relate to all of this.

Thank you for reading this.

u/Scared_Coyote_5284 — 21 days ago

When will semester 6 UG Results will be released?

Man, on Monday it’s my first day of job and I would require my final semester marksheet for onboarding. This is so frustrating man!

Edit - my results are out just this moment :P

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u/Scared_Coyote_5284 — 3 months ago