Says the American passing white transsexual person who who utilizes the informed consent model to get HRT and surgeries. Who was never subjected to doctors arbitrarily deciding their bone structure or inability to do a whole year as their gender before medically transitioning or having their bodies, sexuality, and mental health scrutinized before ever getting the chance to access HRT?
I would never date a trans woman. I’m attracted to sex not gender. That’s why I love ushy gushy trans male pussy. What? Now you are saying lesbians can like men! No trans men don’t count.
Do they dress in a masculine manner? Yes
Do they use pronouns that aren’t she/her? Yes
Do they pass as cis male? No well that’s okay. If yes then definitely not a trender
Do they date women or men? If they don’t pass and date women then still a real trans person but if they date men then nope! Thats a trender theyfab confused woman
I’m never publishing any trans character I’ve ever written because if they aren’t perfect then they’ll just be misgendered and trashed.
/uj Not even a jerk I have several problematic trans characters I’ve written based on myself or others and I will never share them tbh
I’m a Black American and even I feel alienated at often the Westerncentric discourse especially Americancentric way discourse goes. There’s a lot of assumptions that every gender framework or oppression across sex and gender works like it does in white western nations and I’m always perplexed. Even as a Black American who struggles to pass I find it impossible to find passing tips for my more curvy frame. I find masculine vocal coaching doesn’t work well for me because the voice that I’m given examples of sound like white dudes from Wisconsin
Idk maybe I’m alone in this but like it feels like the lived experience of the Global Majority and PoC in the West are at best tokenized or invisible. Pointing this out gets me shunned a lot tbh
I do like some guys but they’re like transmasc but not a real trans man because they don’t pass. They have to be born female and not too hairy. Obviously they have to have vulvas but I guess a cute lil clit dick is okay from meta!
Idk want to seem transphobic but like I’m not into men unless I can see them as close enough to women. Obviously I’m see trans men as men as long as they look gross like cis men
/uj Not passing on T and post top surgery is hell, I wish I was aromantic and asexual. I’m always going to be some transmasc exception that isn’t really an exception but seen as close enough to a cis woman. I wish I could just force my face and body to have changed more on T but alas…I guess I’ll never be loved as a man without being desired as a female
Because he doesn’t want to be accused of being a fetishist or a fujoshi that only transitioned to fetishize real gay men
/uj It’s me and the over 30+ page Southrtn gothic horror obsession Sammie x Remmick Sinners fanfic that won’t see the light of day.
Says the cis gay or lesbian that drags their transphobic LGBdroptheT partner to every Pride event they can find
Obviously she’s a femboy. I mean sure the character only ever refers to herself as a girl. The one character that she’s most close to, her bf, refers to himself as straight and her as a girl! Obviously that’s just internalized homophobia! Even her friends from highschool refer to her as a boy and male! Her creator has confirmed that she’s a male. See a femboy! I mean what trans woman has ever been misgendered by her highschool classmates or parents
At best you could say the character is ambiguous which means femboy! What’s a nonbinary transfem! What! Nobody in Japan is nonbinary! X gender ?! What’s that?! Stop trying to colonize Japan
Cried the American troon upon seeing the ascendancy of Gavin Newsom
The monkey paw curled and out emerges Rahm Emmanuel
/uj Truly shocking how Rahm manages to be the worst on literally every issue. He makes Newsome look like a leftist in comparison OMG!!
If you ever thought that as a disgusting woman that you wish you could be in a gay male/mlm relationship then you are a disgusting fetishist of gay men. You AFABs will never know what it’s like to be a gay man. You’ll always be a straight woman stop fetishizing! You’re creepy
Oh you’re a trans man or transmasc! That’s fine! Ummm just stick to omegaverse though or better yet just write straight-I mean trans man x cis man fanfiction. Just don’t call it mlm or tag it as gay, we real gay men don’t want to see your descriptions of 🤮 vaginal sex
It’s called the Prince is Really a Princess
It will feature a androgynous to butch looking trans guy who will be forcibly stripped of his masculine clothes and forced into a revealing bridal dress
We will have huge muscular masculine cis male characters circle him while chanting he’s a woman and tearing off his clothes to reveal his breast
We will also have him be assaulted and have that reveal to him how foolish wanting to be a man is and make him accept his womanly, female, curvy body
Isn’t this hot for you, non-passing trans guy? Doesn’t this just get you going? Isn’t it great to know only cishet men would want someone like you because they can fix you!
/uj My sexuality has been so severely damaged that I can’t imagine a man being into me for any other reason outside of corrective assault or detrans/misgendering stuff. I actually feel disgusted by my own gayness thanks society
Women in places like Afghanistan and the Congo are oppressed due to their sex. Women in some places are mistreated or discriminated against due to their periods. Thats why I a Western feminist must center sex in my feminist arguments. I’m a PoC so its okay and sure my feminist takes are all western based and only marginally mention the oppression of women from my family’s country and true I am literally ignoring the treatment of trans people in my Westen country but oh well
What’s that? How are trans people treated in Afghanistan, Congo, India, etc? Idk I don’t think they even exist like transness is part of white western decadence after all
What do you mean that lesbians hit on you all the time?
What do you mean that whenever a woman shows interest in you she’s assumed lesbian?
What do you mean that cishet people will use terms like butch or stud or ask you about random lesbians thinking you relate?
What do you mean that cis women often see you as the ultimate butch lesbian
What do you mean that even cis men that fuck you still refer to you as lesbian?
This doesn’t happen! The only bad thing that happens is when a lesbian dates a transmasc or trans man she’s called bi! That’s the real problem
/uj TickTock is the bad place
Trans men lesbians are valid!
He/him lesbians are valid!
Having facial hair as a lesbian is valid!
Only wanting to top and doing the penetration is valid?
Having body hair as a lesbian is valid!
Being nonbinary and a lesbian is valid!
Having a complicated relationship with womanhood and even identifying somewhat with masculinity and boyhood is valid!
What’s that? You’re transfem or a trans woman with a complicated history with womanhood and manhood, have facial and body hair, are nonbinary, like to top with your natal equipment, sometimes use pronouns that aren’t she/her…uh…that’s scary! Please don’t invade lesbian spaces
/uj Seeing cis lesbians be so blatantly contradictory and transmisognistic on this is WILD. Sure trans men and transmasc lesbians are valid but it seems like many of them are just being bioessentialist with that acceptance while rejecting trans women and transfem enbies