Calling my unborn child a poor baby
Me and my boyfriend are currently pregnant with our first child. We are looking for a place but had been staying with his mom for a bit because we’re working on our credit to purchase a home. She told me we should stay after the baby comes, I said I didn’t feel comfortable due to the home conditions we’re in the basement and the main bathroom has like mold from a jacuzzi tub and my baby needing a-lot of space. She doesn’t want us here really and she complains a-lot so I thought that was weird she all of a sudden wants us to stay but we also help her with bills a-lot so that could be why. I was wondering was it just to be nosey and judge our parenting. We were just going to hold off on a house right now since he will be here soon and we’d have to house hunt we talked about an apt to lease but are weighing the options. She texted my boyfriend and said our area isn’t clean and called my son a “Poor Baby”. The home is older and in the basement so even when it’s cleaned regularly it’s doesn’t feel or look clean. She doesn’t even know how it looks down here though. I feel disrespected literally want don’t want her to come to my baby shower, Why are you calling my son a POOR BABY- Is that wrong to tell her don’t come? We’ve had issues in the past from her gossiping her rudeness and being passive aggressiveness she also treats my boyfriend bad