u/SeaLibrarian137

So I love my best friend and roommate! Like I never want her out of my life! But oh my gosh I’ve been so frustrated lately! She almost insist that we do what she wants to do all the times or like if I’m not paying attention to what she’s watching she almost acts annoyed that I’m not into it. Or if we disagree it’s almost like her opinion is actually the only one that matters even when I’m just playing devils advocate for the sake of conversation. And maybe I’m pushing too far I personally don’t feel like I am because i keep it light and I don’t push the opposing side too hard. She just acts like I’m kinda stupid sometimes and couldn’t possibly know what I’m talking about. It makes me sad sometimes but I also know she’s just blunt and will say what ever is on her mind.

She’s also the type of person to take things literally sometimes. She’s doesn’t always do it and I never know when she’s taking it literally until she gives me a literal scenario. But then sometimes I’ll try to cater to that and she’s not being literal it’s so confusing sometimes. And I try really hard to make it known that I’m throwing around hypothetical scenarios but it’s like she doesn’t hear me or something hahaha idk

I’m just not sure if I should say something or if I should just keep with the dynamic unless she explicitly tells me there is an issue? I could just be reading into it too much I’m not sure.

Okay so I (F 30) have been struggling to get off. I spend so much time just trying to get there with my fingers which never results in an orgasm. It only gets me more frustrated. When I try to use a toy or vibrator I tend to get to a point where I pee instead of get off. And it’s not squirt, I have done that before and often so I do know the difference. It’s like warm pee for real. On top of that it’s not like I haven’t before I used to be super sexually active but here lately I’ve been super picky about my sexual partners. But I’m at the point where im scared to have sex with someone because I can’t get off or I’ll just pee on them.

Something I’ve realized is if I pee before I try to get off that doesn’t get rid of the pee all the way and I end up peeing anyway. I’ve also learned that after I pee from the stimulation (like 15-30 minutes later) I’ll eventually have the littlest baby orgasm. Which actually leaves me wanting more because I do love it and I love having sex and I’m usually super sexually active so it’s just incredibly frustrating! I need help!!

Toys I use -a rose, a bullet vibrator, or just a regular wand

I used to have multiple dildos and butt plugs but my ex stole them and I no longer have any of my butt plugs or dildos.

Idk it’s like I want to cum so bad and I try so hard. It’s almost like my clit is throbbing ready to go but something in my head won’t let me.

Help!!!