u/Sea_Accountant_2795

I think I'm not the only one who had orgasms during rapes and was told it was a sign that I loved it... Even if we truly felt pleasure in that moment, it's physical pleasure, a response to a stimulus. The important thing is that we want to have sex, and we don't, that's why it's SA. But they don't see it that way. I feel like they even enjoy seeing us get wet and moan against our will. They see it as a personal victory. It's so frustrating!

In my case, I developed a foot fetish because my rapist loved licking the soles of my feet. And some rape kink (when I have consensual sex, I enjoy remembering my rape). I haven't explored these fetishes; I'm afraid of becoming addicted and falling into a rabbit hole. Is it normal to have these fetishes? I feel weird about it.

In my case, I developed a foot fetish because my rapist loved licking the soles of my feet. And some rape kink (when I have consensual sex, I enjoy remembering my rape)
I haven't explored these fetishes; I'm afraid of becoming addicted and falling into a rabbit hole.

Is it normal to have these fetishes? I feel weird about it...

I think I'm not the only one who had orgasms during rapes and was told it was a sign that I loved it... Even if we truly felt pleasure in that moment, it's physical pleasure, a response to a stimulus. The important thing is that we want to have sex, and we don't, that's why it's SA. But they don't see it that way. I feel like they even enjoy seeing us get wet and moan against our will. They see it as a personal victory. It's so frustrating!

I think I'm not the only one who had orgasms during rapes and was told it was a sign that I loved it. Even if we truly felt pleasure in that moment, it's physical pleasure, a response to a stimulus. The important thing is that we want to have sex, and we don't, that's why it's rape. But they don't see it that way. I feel like they even enjoy seeing us get wet and moan against our will. They see it as a personal victory. It's so frustrating.