Uncomfortable with male Brazilians, advice?
I’m in a very weird position right now. I got fired from EWC a while back because of metrics and after that I worked at smaller place for a few months that offered male Brazilians. I quit after multiple issues there and haven’t been waxing for about a year outside of friends and family. I want to start waxing again because I love it, but I was rejected from another EWC and that’s the only place I know of that won’t make me to do male Brazilians.
I’ve had an interview where they offered me the job, but I told them no because when I told her about my bad experience w a male Brazilian client she suggested that I was touching him teasingly or that it was my fault he finished and that was a red flag to me. I have another interview tomorrow and they said I’d have to wax men after my first three months, but they take their boundaries very seriously w their clients and several people have been banned for inappropriate behavior. But I don’t even want to get to the point of someone having to be banned I don’t want to feel icky like that in a service again. I am autistic and so sometimes I don’t know where to draw the line with inappropriate behavior in clients. Sometimes it seems like so much that’s inappropriate to me is normal to other waxers.
Most of my clients were models or first time guests so I could build my books, so most male brazilian services were discounted or free. I can only remember one male client in my 2 months waxing men there that didn’t make me uncomfortable. There was always some sexual joke about me being young or about how this is the “best part” of their wax, or just their body language that would make me uncomfortable. I had several clients that would get hard and I could literally feel them throbbing or leak precum and I had one that fully finished during their wax. I know being hard can be normal and little bit of leakage is also apparently normal but it still would just made me feel dirty and uncomfortable. I would ask the men to undress from the waist down and they would get fully naked which other waxers have also told me was normal, but it made me uncomfortable like a boundary was crossed.
I’m just stuck because I love waxing, but there’s no place I know of that I can go where I don’t have to do male Brazilians other than EWC. I don’t even know if EWC will hire me anymore since I was fired (I posted in detail about me being fired on my page if u want more context) I can’t afford to have my own suite right now. Should I go to these interviews that require me to do male Brazilians and suck it up to see if their clientele is different? Any advice?