u/Sea_Version222

Every single time I go to a Kspa now, I’m constant followed by dudes trying to cruise, walk into a sauna full dude jerking of, or get groped by some dude while I’m literally sitting there with my eyes closed. Kspas are not gay bathhouses. They’re family friendly, nonsexual spaces that happen to involve nudity. If you can’t handle seeing naked men without acting inappropriately, don’t come. There’s literally gay bathhouses for that. I have no problem with gay men coming to kspas, or even if I see a dude taking a glance at me or another dude. But beyond that it’s not appropriate for these venues.

I sleep in my side and it seems to be a constant need to change position. Do I rest them on my tights but they potentially get squished if I curl up too tight. Or do I tuck them behind my legs but risk them getting yanked? Squish them between my legs? It’s bothered me for years and I’ve never asked another man about it. What do you guys do, or is it just not an issue?