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u/SearchApprehensive35 — 9 hours ago

PHA gentle peeling without AHA or BHA

I have pale, dry, sensitive, aging skin with rosacea and very uneven pigmentation from decades of picking at cystic acne. AHAs, and BHA have helped tame my acne, ingrown hairs, and skin flaking, but my skin is very reactive to them. At best, the color only goes from ivory to deep rose for the day. At worst, painful unsightly skin barrier damage that takes a month to heal. So I have to use them very carefully.

So I am thrilled by PHA. It exfoliates effectively, while being a natural moisturizer. My skin is noticeably more bright and even. My everyday redness is down to a modest pink most days. Wow. PHA doesn't increase photosensitivity, so on its own can be used day and night. Whereas of course AHAs are not appropriate for daytime. Unfortunately, manufacturers in Europe almost always throw in AHAs and/or BHA with PHA! I don't understand why they ruin a gentle all-day active by effectively restricting when it can be used and whose skin can bear it. Ugh. 😭

So I'm relieved to have found The Inkey List's PHA Exfoliating and Hydrating Body Water Creme. It has no AHA, BHA, or drying alcohols. Minimal fragrance (not none though) and no perfumes. My eyes and rosacea have stayed calm, though my nostrils are mildly irritated by the unfortunate inclusion of benzyl alcohol. Water-based, silicone-free, dries fast, and no stickiness or shine.

Overall I feel like it's a nice alternative for anyone who is seeking gentle exfoliation and doesn't have a benzyl alcohol allergy.

The manufacturer website lists the price in Europe as 15€ for 150ml https://eu.theinkeylist.com/products/pha-body-water-cream but Sephora's Germany website sells it for 12,45€

https://www.sephora.de/p/720346.html (The in-store price turned out to be higher, grrr, and the clerk insisted they don't carry it even as he was standing 20cm from several tubes!)

I wish more drugstore lines offered a PHA product without harsher exfoliants added. Ideally without any fragrances or allergens. If you've encountered one, please review it!

u/SearchApprehensive35 — 3 days ago
▲ 1 r/Warts

Using SA has been difficult for me because I have sensitive skin generally, which always is very inflamed by even mild 1-2% doses of AHA or salicylic acid. The only SA wart treatmemt I had been able to acquire in Malta was a mix of 17% SA + 15% lactic acid, which is an AHA. The skin reaction causes intense itchiness in a 15cm radius of the treatment area, and of course intense burning in the treated area. The reactivity is impossible to sleep through, and very distracting otherwise. Here's what I do to make that bearable. Maybe it can help you too.

  1. Before treatment, I apply topical cortisone very liberally all around the treatmemt area for a 20cm radius and allow that to absorb for 5-15 minutes. But I carefully avoid getting cortisone on the wart because the point of treatment is to trigger immune system response. (It helps that the wart itself is never itchy anyway.)

  2. Then I apply the SA/LA solution to the wart.

  3. As the itching flares up, I apply cortisone to itchy zones over and over until they calm down. Again always avoiding the wart.

  4. By the time the itching is under control, the burning has fully kicked in. I wait this long because I want to be sure there hasn't been unusual pain that might be a medical emergency. As long as it's just the normal level of SA pain and there's no other symptoms such as throbbing or heat, I go ahead and apply a thin layer of topical 50mg lidocaine over everything.

By 10-15 minutes later, I have no pain or itchiness left!

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u/SearchApprehensive35 — 2 months ago

The Boston Globe published an article 18 days ago about the inclusion of this provision in a budget bill. Doing so effectively limits debate on the provisions and makes it hard for the legislature to reject.

The website's article is paywalled, so I'm linking to its text that was posted to reddit by the Globe's verified account. You may need to scroll up a little to read it from the beginning. Or if you are a Globe subscriber, scroll to the top of the linked reddit post to click on the article's original URL.

https://www.reddit.com/r/massachusetts/comments/1sn3n6c/comment/ogioklp/

Thank you to sub member u/Kind-Shallot3603/ for bringing it to my attention.

An alternate write-up, with fewer details but no paywall, is at https://dankennedy.net/2026/04/25/gov-healey-wants-to-remove-public-access-to-vital-records-so-were-giving-her-a-muzzle-award-her-third/

u/SearchApprehensive35 — 2 months ago